09/08/2023
๐ข ๐๐ค๐ฌ๐๐ง๐๐ช๐ก ๐ก๐๐จ๐จ๐ค๐ฃ๐จ ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐๐ก๐ฅ๐๐ ๐ข๐ ๐๐ช๐๐ก๐ ๐ ๐๐ช๐จ๐๐ฃ๐๐จ๐จ ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐๐จ ๐๐ฃ ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐ฃ ๐ฅ๐๐ค๐ฅ๐ก๐'๐จ ๐ก๐๐ซ๐๐จ ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐๐จ ๐๐๐ซ๐๐ฃ ๐ข๐ ๐ ๐ก๐๐๐ ๐ ๐ฃ๐๐ซ๐๐ง ๐๐ค๐ช๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐ข๐๐๐๐ฃ๐๐!
1๏ธโฃ ๐ ๐ก๐๐ฉ ๐๐ค ๐ค๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ฃ๐๐๐ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ฟ.
For me, I used to base my value on how other people perceived me.This meant I would change myself according to whoever I was around so that I was โeasyโ to get along with and I had spent the first 25 years of my life being โlikeableโ in order to get ahead.
When in fact, the truth is that this was costing me so much energy to be somebody that I wasnโt at my core. I wasnโt actually โgetting aheadโ - I was just โgetting alongโ. Once I dropped this learnt pattern, I was able to MAGNETISE the kinds of people that really aligned with my values by truly being myself and I now SERVE these people in my heart-led business.
2๏ธโฃ ๐ ๐จ๐ฉ๐ค๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ ๐ก๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ก๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ฃ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐ข๐.
For a long time I used to โgo with the flowโ of life and hope for the best. When things werenโt going well, I was thrown into damage control, and when things went really well I thanked my lucky stars.
What I realised is that I wasnโt choosing to be in the driver's seat because I was afraid of the responsibility and I was ultimately afraid of crashing the car (MY LIFE.) Once I worked through this fear, I learnt that taking responsibility for my life, my decisions and my actions was the key to my inner and outer freedom. Now I back my every decision knowing that I have the power to CHOOSE.
3๏ธโฃ ๐ ๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ง๐ค๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ข๐๐ ๐ข๐ฎ โ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ก๐ค๐ฎ๐๐โ ๐ข๐๐ฃ๐๐จ๐๐ฉ!
For me, the biggest limitation I had in life was the conditioned mind of an โemployeeโ and I have spent the last 4 years unlearning this! I truly believed my TIME = X amount of dollars and that was the governing factor of my quality of life. I thought that a consistent wage equals security, but really it comes from a feeling of INSECURITY - that I canโt provide for myself by means of being who I came here to be!
Once I learnt to leverage my VALUE instead of my time, I increased my ability to earn and importantly, spend more time doing what feeds my soul.
4๏ธโฃ ๐ ๐จ๐ฉ๐ค๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ ๐ฉ๐ง๐ฎ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฉ๐ค โ๐๐ญ๐๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ข๐๐ฉ๐ง๐๐ญโ.
After my first โspiritual awakeningโ, I was angry with all the โliesโ I had been fed growing up and I became ANTI - โthe systemโ. At the time, I thought that I could get out by not playing a part of it all. The truth is, we canโt bypass the systems in place that make the 3D human world function as it does. The only way out is through. When I shifted my focus towards LEARNING how the intricate facets of โthe systemโ work, I realised that I could benefit myself and others lives exponentially through greater AWARENESS.
As I look over these 4 lessons I see how much they have served me to become who I am today.
None of this was easy.
And I had to go through a lot of pain to get to this place.
But I know when we find the lesson we stop repeating the unwanted experience and create new experiences.
I thank you for reading this.
Let me know what you think in the comments ๐
