03/09/2026
From Dale, "Before my stroke, I was retired and enjoying a full and active life with my family.
I played basketball regularly, swam in the ocean, went to the gym, and spent a lot of time renovating our home. My wife Heather and I were planning to travel and looking forward to what came next.
Life was exciting. There was a certainty about it.
I’ve always been passionate about making life better for my wife and my family, and retirement gave me more time to enjoy the life we had built together.
Then, one morning, everything changed.
It was around 11am and I was tidying up at home. I was carrying a plastic table downstairs and had a drill bit in my mouth.
When I reached the ground floor, the drill bit fell out. I leaned the table against the kitchen island and turned around to pick it up. Before I could, the room started spinning.
At first, I thought I had vertigo. I lost my balance and made my way over to the lounge to sit down. Then I began vomiting violently.
My two sons were home at the time, and I yelled out to them. My son, Bailey came to help me. I told him something wasn’t right and that we needed to call an ambulance.
About 15 minutes later, I began having trouble swallowing and noticed the left side of my face was going numb. I knew something serious was happening.
I called Triple Zero (000), but the call disconnected and we had to call again. I remember a paramedic arriving in a car, My eldest son Max was by my side and assisted the paramedic until the ambulance arrived.
I also remember being in the ambulance with the lights and sirens going, watching the cars move out of our way and then pull back onto the road behind us. I was taken to Sunshine Coast University Hospital – a place I knew very well.
I had retired from there only a year or so earlier after working as a Clinical Nurse in Adult Mental Health.
Now I was arriving as a patient.
My son Max, had called Heather, who was still working at the hospital as a Clinical Coach in Mental Health, and told her, “Dad has had a stroke.”
She arrived at the Emergency Trauma room just as I was being wheeled in. What I had thought was vertigo was a stroke associated with a vertebral artery dissection, affecting an area of my brain involved in balance.
Recovery isn't always something you can see...
One of the biggest things I’ve had to come to terms with is that I have had a brain injury.
I’ve had to think about things I never expected to think about, including the possibility that my life could be shorter than I had imagined. Heather and I have had conversations about what our lives might look like if I were to have another stroke.
There are also the day-to-day challenges.
I experience neuralgia and regularly lose my balance. Fatigue is a big problem, and I often need to sleep in the afternoon. I don't sleep well at night, and since my stroke I have also developed atrial fibrillation. But if you looked at me, you probably wouldn't know I have had a stroke.
I'm a big, strong man. I was going to the gym before my stroke, and I’ve worked hard to stay physically strong since.
In some ways, that is one of my strengths. But it also means much of what I live with is invisible.
I’ve always liked to dress well, too. Even during recovery, I would put on one of my beautiful jackets and dress like there was nothing wrong. That was part of how I approached things.
Realising life had changed...
While I was in hospital, I had time to reflect and realised life was going to have to change. At first, I thought I might need to buy a golf cart just to get around our property.
We lived on an acre and a quarter, and eventually we made the decision to fast-track selling it because I simply couldn't keep up with the physical work the property required anymore.
That wasn't the future we'd planned.
But I'm a determined man. I've always had an ability to turn my dreams and ideas into reality, and having a stroke hasn't taken that away from me. I've just had to rethink what some of those dreams look like.
The people who helped me through...
My family and friends have been incredibly important throughout my recovery.
So have the paramedics who came to my home, the staff at Sunshine Coast University Hospital and the rehabilitation team who helped me afterwards. Having people around me who believed in my recovery and supported me made a real difference.
Through all of this, I've also discovered something about myself.
I'm stronger than I thought I could ever be.
I've always been grateful for the fortunate life I've had, but since my stroke, I'm even more aware of it. I appreciate my wife, my family, and my friends. The opportunities I've had and the things I'm still able to do.
One thing I want more people to understand is that stroke isn't something that only happens to older people. It can happen to younger people, too.
And the effects aren't always obvious; my disability is largely invisible.
Someone can look strong and healthy on the outside while living with the effects of stroke that other people simply can't see. That's why I think it's important to talk about stroke. When I have the opportunity, I tell people I've had one.
Keep moving forward...
For someone who has recently had a stroke, my best advice is to make sure you have support around you. Reach out to your health professionals, your GP and allied health team. Ask for the help you need.
Stay strong and work hard on the areas that have been affected by your stroke. Recovery takes effort, and I've tried to stay as strong as I can, both physically and mentally.
My family, friends, and the team at Sunshine Coast University Hospital have given me hope along the way, and now, I keep looking forward.
I'm incredibly proud of the way Heather, my boys, my family and friends have always been there for me.
What I want for the future is actually pretty simple.
I want to stay healthy, to keep planning trips overseas with my family - and most of all, I want to keep exploring the world with my beautiful wife.
I love you, Heather. Thank you for standing by me.
If this story resonates with you and you have question, please call the team on StrokeLine 1800 787 653