16/10/2026
By the second loss she has usually already decided it was her body.
Half the DNA in that pregnancy came from s***m, and s***m are incredibly sensitive to oxidative stress, so when that stress has damaged the DNA inside the s***m, or there is an infection present, fertilisation can still happen and the pregnancy can still begin, and then the damage he carried in can be part of why it does not continue.
Even the American Society for Reproductive Medicine now says s***m DNA fragmentation testing may be considered after multiple losses, and while the research on how best to treat it is still catching up, that is a long way from where the conversation started, which was almost entirely about her.
So before another round of tests on her, I want his semen analysis and s***m DNA fragmentation on the table.
Comment S***M and I will send you my men’s preconception essentials.