Leigh Stafford Uncommon Man

Leigh Stafford Uncommon Man On a mission to help 1 million men move from Stuck to Unstoppable

09/09/2026

At some point, a lot of us stopped asking “what if?” and started asking “what’s realistic?”

Work. Bills. Family. Responsibilities.

Life gets busy, and dreaming big starts to feel like something you did when you were younger.

But dreaming bigger doesn’t mean you have to achieve every bloody thing you imagine.

It’s giving yourself permission to ask:
What am I actually capable of?

You’ve got one crack at this. Why make the vision smaller before you’ve even started?

08/09/2026

It’s easy to walk into a room already convinced you know what everyone thinks of you.

But sometimes the judgement you’re expecting from everyone else started with you.

And that’s worth paying attention to.

Because changing your life isn’t only about changing what you do. It’s about becoming aware of the identity you’re carrying into every room, relationship and decision.

Episode 4 of Project 98.9 is out now. Watch the full episode on YouTube.

08/09/2026

Sometimes you don’t realise how much needs to change until you start doing the work.

Damien thought life was pretty good. But underneath it, there were things he’d been carrying and fighting for a long time.

Through the work at Uncommon Man, the change hasn’t just been in him.

It’s shown up in his family, his friendships, the way he performs and the way he shows up for the people around him.

That’s the ripple effect of working on yourself 👊

07/09/2026

What do you want your kids to say about you one day?

That you worked hard and provided? Sure.

But hopefully they also remember that you were there. That you listened. That you backed them. That they knew exactly how much they mattered to you.

Because legacy isn’t just what you leave behind.

It’s how you show up for the people in front of you right now.

Worth thinking about: What would the people closest to you say?

06/09/2026

There are some parts of Project 98.9 that I genuinely couldn’t make up if I tried. 😂

What started as a questionable commitment to no showers somehow ended with Sharkie having a very close encounter with a dugong.

And apparently they bring good luck and fertility… which opened up an entirely different conversation. 😂

Just another completely normal week on Project 98.9.

Episode 4 is out now.

Watch the full episode on YouTube or listen to the podcast — link in bio.

05/09/2026

From the outside, you can look like you’ve got your s**t together while everything underneath is falling apart.

I had built success, helped people and kept showing up for everyone around him.

But somewhere along the way, there was nothing left for himself.

This is a part of my story we don’t share lightly. But it’s also part of why Uncommon Man exists today.

Sometimes the line in the sand isn’t about becoming a better version of yourself.

It’s deciding you can’t keep living the same way.

05/09/2026

52 years is a long time to carry a certain story about yourself.

And I’m realising you don’t suddenly become a different person because you set a new goal.

It happens slowly. Every time you learn, grow, do something uncomfortable or show yourself you’re capable of more.

Looking back, I was building a different version of myself long before I even realised it.

Maybe Project 98.9 is another part of that.
Episode 4 is out now.

Watch the full episode on YouTube or listen to the podcast — link in bio.

04/09/2026

98.9 is a number. But what does life actually look like when I get there?

I’m learning there’s a difference between wanting an outcome and building a life that actually supports it.

The routines.
The environment.
The choices.

Even the version of yourself you’re trying to become.

Episode 4 of Project 98.9 is out now! Watch the full episode on YouTube or listen to the podcast — link in bio.

03/09/2026

Your kids probably won’t remember every piece of advice you gave them.

But they’ll remember the man they watched every day.

How you handled the hard days.
Whether you kept your word.
Whether you gave up when things got uncomfortable.

Being the father you want to be isn’t about getting it right every time. It’s about giving yourself — and your kids — new evidence of the man you’re choosing to become.

Because eventually, your standards become part of what they learn from you.

03/09/2026

You can be home with your family and still not really be there.

Your body’s in the room, but your head’s still at work.

Thinking. Planning. Fixing. Solving the next problem.
And your kids notice that more than you think.

Sometimes being a better father isn’t about doing more for your family. It’s learning how to stop, clear the noise and actually be with them when you’re there.

Because your kids don’t need every problem solved.

They need you present.

Episode 2 of the Uncommon Man Podcast is out now. 🎙️ Watch the full episode on YouTube — link in bio.

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