07/06/2026
I’ve been thinking a lot about caregivers lately.
I’ve been one.
I know what it feels like to become so focused on keeping everyone else afloat that you stop noticing what it is costing you and I’ve come to believe that the caregiver deserves someone in their corner too.
I recently came across some research about the impact chronic caregiving stress can have on the body. It spoke about changes to sleep, healing, and the immune system, and it simply confirmed something I’ve seen over and over again.
The caregiver is often carrying far more than anyone realises.
The wife.
The mother.
The grandmother.
The daughter.
The friend.
The one who remembers the medications, sits through appointments, cooks the meals, manages the paperwork, and lies awake at night listening for a sound from the next room.
I don’t think we talk enough about what that kind of responsibility does to a body.
Somewhere along the way, exhaustion becomes normal, being on high alert becomes normal, putting yourself last becomes normal but normal doesn’t always mean healthy.
One of the things I love about Spinal Flow is that it reminds us that our bodies are always listening. They don’t separate emotional stress from physical stress. They simply adapt and keep going for as long as they can and sometimes they are carrying far more than they were ever meant to.
That’s one of the reasons I do what I do.
I can’t change the circumstances you’re living with, and I can’t take away the love that has you showing up every day but I can offer a space where your nervous system has the opportunity to soften, a space where your body doesn’t have to stay on high alert, a space where you don’t have to be the strong one, a space where you can simply be cared for.
I believe the body has an incredible capacity to heal and restore, but it is much harder to do that when it feels it must stay in survival mode.
My role isn’t to tell your body what to do.
My role is to help create the conditions where it can remember what it already knows.
I sometimes think caregivers become so good at looking after everyone else that they forget they deserve care as well.
If this is you, I want you to know that you don’t have to wait until you break down before you reach out.
The caregiver deserves care too and maybe it’s time someone held space for you, with the same kindness you’ve been giving everyone else.