14/06/2026
The greatest gift Ive given to this marriage (25 together) was learning how to love myself.
And boy oh boy it’s been clunky.
The more I spent time loving my shameful parts. The parts that feel unworthy of love.
The more i grew a large container of love. Cos if i can love my shadow, well wow, the light can enter in and all of a sudden the love I can hold is limitless.
I stopped projecting onto him. I stopped needing him to be different. I stopped keeping the store. I Stopped gatekeeping my love.
The more I loved all of me. The more I’ve been able to love all of him. Turns out self love actually brings you closer. 💗