23/08/2023
What was the problem for me you ask?
Well, before I became a mum I was prob a really good people pleaser, I already wasn't sure of my worth and I would often take others advice over my own knowledge.
And then when I became a mum, I got more and more lost as my attention turned to the children, good distraction method, so I thought.
I forgot I had a voice, I forgot I had needs, and on top of that I had no energy!
But having not much time to myself in those early days, is what actually got me thinking about what was important.
Those tiny pockets when the kids were asleep got me curious about how I wanted to spend that time.
And yep, I felt like I wasted it a bit at the beginning by defaulting to dishes, washing etc, or not knowing what to do in that time.
But eventually I started to bring things in. Like learning (one of my fav things to do), singing, running, beach walks, reading, going to the movies, meeting up with friends and the list goes on.
What's the saying...it doesn't happen overnight, but it will happen.
The biggest thing for me was remembering what I love, and then being part of a community that could help me get it.
The type of community that cheers you on, the type of community that supports you as you work through something that requires a bit of leaning into, the type of community that gets excited by the lessons learned as you pave a new way forward for yourself and the type of community that celebrates your wins!
As mothers who are passionate about this and have seen it work, Mel and I are creating a community of women that has all of this good stuff!
And we would love to invite you in as a founding member to help us shape this.
Don't worry we have the vision, it's rock solid, we just know the power of women together in a space, learning and growing through conversation.
Yep, I here you, it was calling me and it might be calling you too.
So let's get you back on your list, Grab your Keys and Go into a life that feeeeels good, no.... feeeeeeels incredible, and let's do it together.
The doors are now open. Go and take a peek.
(Link in the comments)
Nat and Mel