13/06/2026
Sleep isn’t just about being physically tired.
One of the biggest mistakes we make when supporting sleep (especially for neurodivergent people) is focusing only on low energy, yawning, rubbing eyes, or looking exhausted.
Because physical tiredness and cognitive tiredness aren’t always the same thing.
You can have a body that feels completely depleted while your brain is still running a marathon.
Or a mind that feels foggy and overloaded while your body is still craving movement, sensory input, or connection.
And this is why “bedtime” is often when neurodivergent people need the most co-regulation.
For many, accommodations such as co-sleeping, lying beside someone until they fall asleep, body doubling, physical touch, or simply having another nervous system nearby aren’t bad habits, they’re supports that help the body and brain feel safe enough to rest.
Successful sleep isn’t just about sleep hygiene, blackout curtains, white noise, weighted blankets, or bedtime routines.
It’s also about interoception.
Learning to recognise:
✨ What does physical tiredness feel like in my body?
✨ What does cognitive tiredness feel like in my mind?
✨ What helps both of those states align?
Because sleep often happens most easily when our bodies and brains are tired at the same time.
So I’m curious…
How do you know when your body is tired?
And how do you know when your mind is tired?
👇 Describe the feeling in the comments.