29/08/2026
Your workplace might call it “professionalism.” A disabled employee might call it ableism.
And honestly? Some of the behaviours we reward at work are just conformity disguised as professionalism.
Here are 8 examples of ableism that still get normalised in workplaces 👇
1. “More accommodations means less capacity.”
Assuming someone is less capable because they need adjustments to perform at their best.
2. “Everyone should be treated the same.”
Confusing equality with equity as though fairness means giving everyone identical support.
3. “Look at me when I’m talking to you.”
Expecting eye contact, handshakes and other neurotypical social behaviours as proof of respect or professionalism.
4. “They’re being rude.”
Interpreting direct communication, reduced small talk, different facial expressions or tone as a character flaw.
5. “That’s childish.”
Mocking sensory tools, movement, headphones, fidgets, comfort items or regulation strategies.
6. “They just need to try harder.”
Blaming motivation instead of considering disability, executive functioning, burnout, accessibility or environmental barriers.
7. “We know what’s best for them.”
Making decisions about disabled employees without actually listening to disabled people.
8. “That’s just how we do things here.”
Using “professionalism” as a reason to demand conformity rather than questioning whether the expectation is actually necessary.
Because professionalism shouldn’t mean acting less disabled.
And inclusion shouldn’t mean teaching disabled people how to look, sound and behave more like everyone else.
If your workplace only works when disabled people mask, the problem isn’t the disabled employee.
It’s the workplace.
Agree or disagree? 👇