01/06/2026
This morning I woke up, got up as I would to think about going to the gym and ended up back in bed. Normally, this would end up in a bit of a shame spiral for me, but I recognize it this morning. I had something big and scary for the way that my brain works. I have been invited to do something this morning that I’ve not done before and I have very little information about how it will go. Where I work with people in developing tools so that when they caught out in the moment, they have a tool bag that they can use and get through situations. This morning my tool bag was some quiet music, a coffee on the couch, taking time to make myself feel good and look good, organizing my thoughts in my diary. Now to put on some clothing and look at the part to play. So often I hear that people want to secure work first and then sort out the barriers later, but we don’t turn up to a ballet performance and figure out how we’re going to do the dance while we’re on stage in front of people. we practice. we practice. we practice. so that, when we’re in the middle of the performance, the next step is automatic. This is why we do capacity building and we build your toolbox before we send you off to apply for jobs - so that, when the moment counts, you know how to survive and thrive