05/10/2026
It wasn’t a big lie. It was a convenient one.
The version I told: “Sorry, I’m so flaky.”
The version that happened: my body ran out of energy, and I let people think I was unreliable because that was easier than being doubted again.
The real version is the useful one. “I’m flaky” sounds like a character flaw. “My body ran out” is information.
If you’ve been apologising for something that was never your fault, you’re not the only one. What’s the convenient version you tell? You don’t have to answer here.
Follow Em West | Multiple Sclerosis Counsellor if you’ve been saying sorry for your body.