Kindness Kare

30/05/2026

Recently we were denied money for supports provided to a palliative lady, an isolated and lonely lady who was dying the best she could with roadblocks, red tape and judgement all around her.
The plan manager thought we were “dodgy” or “non-compliant”because we had two phone numbers, and two office locations on Google. The service agreement, support coordinator and participant had no luck convincing her other wise.
I told her it’s called growth - she threatened me with reporting me to the commissions and I said great do that, not a problem at all.

Whilst the school yard mentality of this lady’s priority was to “undo my dodgy claim” my focus was on making sure this lady didn’t die alone over some p**s poor way somebody wanted to manage her funds.

We got her admitted into a great hospital and she received adequate pain relief. Her fear slowly went away, with the hospital staff, visits from myself and some of my staff during our own time, we gave her the quiet gentle moments of not feeling so alone.

We laughed. We cried. We watched her enjoy her last ci******es and coffee, we purchased her favourite foods, we sat in silence, we sat in conversation and held space. We held her hand.

And I’m so proud of my team, and myself for stepping up against the black and white rules and leading with genuine compassion, and proof that human kindness can outweigh anything.

Last night this lady found her peace, and my heart is so full because she did not die alone.

Go gently now mate 🤍

12/05/2026

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29/04/2026

Why don’t we treat everyday like a funeral day?
Generally the day is a pause for reflection and honouring of an individual life that has ended here on earth.
You often find yourself sitting in nostalgia, for the smells, the memories, the moments shared.
You see the world differently on these days, like it all slows down. You shuffle busy tasks, you prioritise importance, you cancel plans. You become present. Present in the moment.
The grief.
The acknowledgment that life goes on in a different way now that their hearts are no longer beating.
That their physical presence is no longer seen.
We think of the good qualities we have, we boost our confidence and ego about who we were to them, and what we meant. We reflect on poor choices made throughout the duration of their lives shared with us, its human nature to question and so the questions and inner dialogue starts; did I do enough, should I have spent more time with them, did they know how much I loved them. Why was I so mean in middle school. Did I call grandma enough. Was I a supporting and loving friend. Were they happy. Am I happy. What’s the meaning of this big old life we all live. What’s our purpose.
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20/04/2026

Sitting with gentle thoughts & sympathy for the families of two inactive KK family members who went from community into care and have now both left us earth side. Nobody ever just “leaves” our family- they are always a thought or a text or phone call away. We hold and cherish every individual so dearly to our hearts. Maintaining contact with the families we have rapport with is such an honour for us. Both beautiful souls onto their next journey, thank you for allowing us to care for you 🤍🙏🏼🦋

11/04/2026

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“Do you think we ever get the chance
to talk with them again…
the ones we miss?” asked Rabbit.

“I think we already do,” said Bear.
“Every time we sit in the quiet
and open our hearts,
they meet us there…
different now,
but still themselves.”

©️Tara Shannon

11/04/2026

Grandmas garden 🦋🌸 I can’t share the accurate photos of all we do, I scroll through my camera roll thinking how amazing it would be to share with you all so here’s a photo of my grandmas garden instead. Where time slows and the beauty allows you to breathe.

Grief has such an integral role in all I do- I carry love and grief in the same breath & capacity and move forward with them.
Honouring life and honouring death. Hand in hand.
Grief is integral in the way I work in this lifetime.
Professionally and personally sometimes a mix of both.

And grief has knocked me on my ass in more ways than one this past year.

I can’t disclose most of my life on socials due to the precious world we live in, oh how I’d love to share more, keep your eyes posted for a future book maybe..

Grateful for my world & those in it.

Kindness Kare is still very much here 🥰 we show up authentically in the trenches daily, rarely advertising for likes or promotion. Finding people make their way to us naturally when they need us most.

Our KK family is strong & mighty. So many blessings….

Forever honoured.

02/04/2026

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Over this Easter weekend, many take time to pause.

Good Friday invites reflection, a quiet moment to honour love, sacrifice, and the depth of what it means to care for one another.

Easter brings with it a sense of renewal, a gentle reminder that even after loss, there can be moments of light, connection, and new beginnings.

For some, this time is filled with gathering and celebration.
For others, it may feel tender, especially when someone is missing.

Wherever you find yourself this Easter, may you move gently with space for both reflection and hope, in whatever way feels right for you.

We are holding you in warmth and care💚

05/03/2026

Lovingly acknowledging a KK family member soul transition 🤍 go gentle sweet man

02/02/2026

An early morning transition for one of our kk family souls, a day of reflection, gratitude & heartache for those who shared her life - go gently sweet lady. 🤍

06/12/2025