05/10/2026
Don’t let breaking up break you.
You are not broken.
You are emotionally stuck and your thoughts continually finding excuses or reasons for the breakup.
we are trained to look for a solution no matter or who’s fault it is.
Maybe it’s not about fault.
Maybe it’s about who you became in the relationship.
Maybe we can look at the two sided coin and see what actually happened.
Answer some questions honestly to bring out the underlying feelings.
1. I felt loved because…………..
2. I felt I had to compromise……….
3. I contributed……%. Of the relationship.. they contributed…% to the relationship.
4. I expected them to…….
5. They expected me to……..
6. The one thing that the relationship gave me……. Something I hadn’t felt before…….
Knowing these things about yourself, you can become unstuck and developed self-care, emotional stability and plan for the next step.
If you would like some help with that DM me stuck.