16/06/2026
This morning I had a bit of an epiphany.
Lately, I've been feeling guilty that I haven't been doing regular Qigong, sticking to a perfect wellness routine, or putting more energy into growing my business.
But when I sat with it for a moment, I realised something...
The guilt wasn't really mine.
It was what I imagined other people might think.
What would my Qigong mentor think?
What would other people in the wellness space think?
Shouldn't I be practising more? Posting more? Doing more?
And then I asked myself a different question:
"What do I need right now?"
If I'm being honest, I already knew the answer.
Right now, in the middle of winter, I need comfort.
I need slower mornings.
I need cups of tea (or coffee) 😉.
I need time with friends.
I need connection.
But I also need quiet moments just for me.
A long soak in a bubble bath with the door locked so the kids, husband, dogs, cats and every other distraction can't find me for a little while.
Curling up by the fire with a good book.
Journalling before bed.
A cosy blanket.
A slower pace.
That doesn't mean Qigong isn't important to me anymore. It doesn't mean I've given up on my goals or that I've become lazy.
It simply means I'm choosing a different rhythm for this season.
Nature doesn't bloom all year round, and neither do we.
Sometimes growth looks like action and momentum.
Sometimes it looks like rest, reflection, comfort, and listening to your own inner wisdom.
As women, I think we spend so much time listening to what we 'should' be doing that we forget to ask ourselves what we actually need.
Maybe this winter isn't asking you to push harder.
Maybe it's asking you to slow down.
To rest.
To reconnect with yourself.
To trust your intuition.
So today, instead of asking yourself what you should be doing, try asking:
"What do I need in this season of my life?"
The answer might be exactly what you've been looking for. 💚