Inga Dennett Consulting

06/06/2026

03/06/2026

We as humans complicate just about everything.

We have become so busy surviving, oftentimes chasing lives that are beyond our means because they're sold to us that this is what matters, what cars we drive, what our houses look like, what we look like aesthetically, what we should feel like and in that, in the process, we've lost our innate ability and consequentially our innate needs not being met, to be connected to ourselves, nature, God and each other in the simplest ways.

I watched Elvis today be gently ushered away from his owner who was in a shop buying some groceries but Elvis couldn't be. For a moment, as he was being led outside by a stranger, he stopped and refused to move, natural and logical because he wasn't being led by his owner, in fact his owner was walking the other way. When his owner came closer, Elvis began to move, with ease and flow.

So perhaps, throughout your day today. Notice, where in your life you're moving because someone else wants you to but your innate knowing is saying a clear no. Get curious, feel into it and reconnect with your innate ability to discern what is valuable and right for you vs where others and the world may be leading you ### Be like Elvis x

02/06/2026

02/06/2026

We often look at the headlines and wonder how we can possibly fix a society that feels so broken. We spend a massive amount of energy trying to clean up the mess after someone completely breaks down. We build bigger systems to manage addiction, violence, and broken relationships, but we rarely look at the internal panic that drove the behavior in the first place.

We are pouring endlessly into trying to manage the aftermath of chaos, completely missing the fact that the actual blueprint for a civilized world is being written right now in our living rooms.

The reality is that an adult who cannot handle their own internal weather will eventually look for a way to numb it or a way to fight it. Most of the time, addiction and violence are just desperate attempts to escape an unbearable internal state.

When a child is never taught how to hold anger, grief, or deep disappointment without completely unraveling, their brain goes into pure survival mode. They grow into adults who either look for a substance to quiet the storm, or throw the chaos outward onto anyone who disagrees with them.

That is why teaching our kids how to handle their big feelings is the most profound work we will ever do under our roofs. When we help a child let a massive wave of panic or rage land without letting it dictate their behavior, we are breaking the cycle before it even starts.

They build the internal strength to stay steady inside their own skin, which means they won't grow up feeling the needing to hurt themselves or others just to escape. They become adults who can sit in a room with someone who sees the world completely differently, without treating that disagreement as an attack on their existence.

True regulation starts at home. By giving our kids the tools to face their own storms today, we stop raising adults who need to destroy the room just to survive their own minds. We send humans out into the world who can look a stranger in the eye, disagree completely, and still let the respect remain. ❤️

Image Quote Credit: .holistic.psychologist ❣️