13/06/2026
Have you ever noticed that when you start a diet, you don’t just feel hungry...You feel a little sad?
A little flat?
Maybe even deprived?
Most people think it’s because they’re “missing out” on food.
But what if it’s because they’re unknowingly removing one of their biggest sources of joy?
For many of us, food isn’t just fuel.
It’s celebration.
It’s connection.
It’s comfort.
It’s something to look forward to at the end of a hard day.
So if you suddenly take away all the foods that bring you joy, but don’t replace that joy with anything else... of course it’s going to feel hard.
Long-term weight loss isn’t just about eating differently.
It’s about living differently.
A question I often ask clients is:
“If food wasn’t your main source of joy today, what else could be?”
Maybe it’s a walk in the sunshine.
Calling a friend.
Reading a book.
Dancing in the kitchen.
Listening to music.
A bath.
Creating something.
Watching the sunset.
Create yourself a Joy List.
A list of things that genuinely fill your cup that have nothing to do with food.
Because sustainable change isn’t about removing joy from your life.
It’s about expanding where you find it. 💛