02/09/2026
The question of who is in control in the experience of hypnosis is easy to answer. The person who in hypnosis is in control of their experience. However, this question is there for a reason so I will address it in detail.
There is a myth around hypnosis control. Movies and tv shows perpetuate a myth that a person in hypnosis is no longer in control of their own experiences and that the hypnotist has taken power over their mind.
In movies and tv shows, this myth is used to tell an entertaining story - showing the hypnotist planting ideas in a person's mind serves a purpose for the fictional tale - to entertain, and to move the story along in some way. In real life, control remains with the person in hypnosis.
Another representation of hypnosis that can compound the myth of loss of control, is stage hypnosis - where it looks like the person hypnotised has no power over their own mind. As discussed here in an earlier post, people who volunteer for stage hypnosis shows do so of their own choosing - think about that - they are volunteering to go forward to be part of a show! - they are willing to do the silly things that the audience sees happening on stage - they have not lost control - they have allowed themselves to accept ludicrous suggestions for the sake of the event - may seem strange to some, but some people are willing to volunteer to do silly things on stage.
Hypnosis occurs when there is willingness for it to occur.
In a hypnotherapy session, clients willingness to resolve issues supports the client to allow hypnosis to happen - to allow the subconscious to become involved in the resolution of the issue. Hypnosis is easy to achieve, and natural, all while staying in control.
Consider these questions
1. Have you ever gazed out a window daydreaming? - the experience of being in one place, but your mind is somewhere else.
2. Have you ever driven on a routine journey and forgotten passing certain places, or landmarks (e.g. getting home and saying, oh I dont even remember going through ... a particular place)
3. Have you ever watched a movie and become so engrossed in it that you felt the emotions on the screen?
4. Have you ever become so engrossed in an activity that you really enjoy, that a lot more time passed while engaged in that activity than you thought?
If you said yes to any of these, then you can relate to having a light hypnotic experience. All of the experiences above are perfectly normal and natural and safe everyday hypnotic experiences to have - Imagine! You have been into hypnosis all along!! It's natural that's how and that's why. Here's what happens
From Q.1 Daydreaming
From Q.2 Acting on automatic pilot
From Q.3 Experiencing emotions (e.g fear, or sadness) from events in a movie, even though the movie is not real life
From Q.4 Changes in our perception of time
Each of these are wonderfully natural phenomena that are examples of every day hypnosis - experiences where you are in still in complete control you just allow these experiences to happen.
For example, if the emotions are too much, you can just turn off the movie.
In hypnotherapy, we simply use these very natural phenomena,
as well as other useful aspects of hypnosis such as encouraging deep levels of relaxation. Therapy carried out in hypnosis can allow clients to become free from emotional issues, or free from feeling stuck in a pattern of behaviour or thinking, such as with an anxiety, or an unwanted habit, feelings of overwhelm, and can benefit physical health circumstances such as for people suffering from tinnitus or preparing for a medical procedure.
Hypnotherapist members of associations such as the Australian Hypnotherapists Association are bound by a code of ethics which strictly prohibits any action that would put any clients safety at risk in any way.
Additionally, the process of hypnotherapy aims to be empowering for clients. Hypnotherapists work to help clients feel more control in their lives, not less, so we have no wish or desire to, or any interest in, taking control of anyone's mind - we are just guides - it is you, the client who actually makes (or sometimes lets) the change happen - we can help, we can help you make that change that you want to make, but that somehow you feel stuck in being able to make it actually happen
Find out more, Explore the possibilities of hypnotherapy to safely help you overcome a habit, feeling or behaviour that you wish to become free of - and be assured that you will always maintain control of your experience