11/06/2026
Your nervous system has a range it can operate within comfortably. Inside that window you can think clearly, respond rather than react, and feel relatively grounded even under pressure. That window is called, the window of tolerance.
When something pushes you outside that window, either too high (overwhelmed, anxious, reactive) or too low (shutdown, flat, disconnected), your capacity to cope drops significantly.
Most people in chronic stress are living at the very edge of that window. Which means it takes almost nothing to tip them out.
How to know where you are right now:
Too high —> jaw tight, shoulders up, thoughts racing, easily irritated, can’t slow down even when you want to.
Too low —> flat, foggy, unmotivated, disconnected, going through the motions.
Inside the window —> present, able to think, breathing without noticing it, capacity to choose your response.
The goal of nervous system work isn’t to eliminate stress. It’s to widen the window. So more of life fits inside it.
Breathwork, somatic practice, and systemic work are three effective ways to do that. Each one works differently. Together, they work deeply.
Save this and notice today which end of the window you’re sitting in. ✨