03/06/2020
Initially when first introduced to the Mettā bhāvanā I had so much resistance to the practice. It seemed impossibly idyllic and inaccessible to me. Fortunately though I stuck with it, thanks largely to Coogee Meditation Group sangha, and ended up exploring it further with various Insight Meditation teachers, and through formal teacher training with Insight Meditation Institute.
In hindsight, I see how my initial judgements were so very misguided, and can honestly say that the Mettā bhāvanā is now a deeply valued part of my practice — one that I turn to often, and for which I am truly grateful for in troubled times like these.
I recently led a group through the practice for the first time, something I would never have had the confidence to do without personal conviction. I really believe this practice has so much to offer. If you can, if you feel inclined, do explore it. Find a teacher, find a group and bring an open-mind — even if your heart feels closed. You may find in time that you experience something beyond anything you ever thought possible.
"It’s a pretty tall order—although possible for some people—to feel loving and kind toward those who are perpetrators of violence and oppression. Even to feel good will toward them might be difficult. So we can frame this meditation as the cultivation of nonhatred and nonfear in order to become stronger, more stable, and more centered. Then we can move forward in a positive fashion to battle oppression and create some improvement for our communities and the United States overall."
Mushim Patricia Ikeda teaches us how to generate loving-kindness and good will as an antidote to hatred and fear.