Nurture Parenting

Nurture Parenting Nurture Parenting has created a world class online Nurture Sleep Program from newborn to five years o She has recently relocated back to the North of England.
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Nurture Parenting is an infant sleep, toddler behaviour, parent support education service. It was established in February 2011 by Karen Faulkner, a Registered Midwife and Community Specialist Practitioner/Child & Family Health Nurse. Karen emigrated from the UK in 2002 and gathered a heap of experience, skills and qualifications working in Community Health in Melbourne and Sydney. Our Mission
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want to help parents everywhere get more sleep and spread the love. Our Vision
Nurture Parenting wants to challenge and change the current parenting paradigm and treatment models of sleep training and introduce parents to baby sleep learning. And to inspire and provide confidence in all parents to become the best they can be. We help with children from newborn to 5 years old (0-5 years). Our sleep training methods are kind and based in attachment psychology. We believe in conscious parenting.

20/08/2026

Paige Koser | Homeschool and Dream Home Build 🥺💜
Play is the way! If you didn’t get to your homeschool lessons today because your kids were busy playing. They are doing far more in play!

Audio by Dr. Vanessa Lapointe

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06/08/2026

Parenting Support | Mindful Parenting | Child Development 📌 Follow Parenting Support | Mindful Parenting | Child Development for daily insights on the neuroscience of parenting, behavior, and connection 💜🥺

The hitting. The running away. The screams over a broken cracker or leaving the park. Ages 2 to 4 can completely break your spirit.

When your toddler is melting down on the floor, it feels like intentional defiance. It feels like they are pushing your buttons on purpose.

But neuroscience reveals they literally do not have the physical brakes to stop themselves yet.

➡️ An Immature Brain with No Brakes
The Timeline: The prefrontal cortex, which handles impulse control, will not be fully mature until around age 25.

The Reality: At age 3, it is barely online.
The Flood: When a boundary is set, their emotional “go system” floods the body long before the thinking brain can catch up.
The Shift: They are not trying to give you a hard time; they are having a hard time.

➡️ Your Nervous System is the Teacher
Co-Regulation: A young child’s brain cannot self-regulate. They must borrow calm from your regulated nervous system to cool down.

The Real Tool: The most powerful tool you have is not a harsh consequence or yelling.
The Practice: It is your own low voice, slow breath, and physical closeness.

➡️ Stop Shouting and Start Connecting
If you are exhausted from losing your patience and ready to stop the endless cycle of power struggles, you need a clear framework.

THE CALM PARENT BLUEPRINT gives you the exact neuroscience-backed scripts and strategies to help your child regulate in real time.

Comment “MELTDOWN” below and I will DM you the link .

➡️ What is the single hardest trigger that causes a meltdown in your house?

Disclaimer: For educational purposes only; not a substitute for professional psychological or medical advice. Consult a professional for support.

02/08/2026

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The most confident Norwegian kids I’ve met aren’t constantly told how amazing they are.

They’re trusted to discover it for themselves.

These are the habits I’m trying to use with our girls:

1. Let them do hard things before helping.
Zips, shoes, climbing, carrying their own things. Confidence grows when they realise, “I did it.”

2. Give them real responsibility.
Bring your plate. Pack your backpack. Help set the table. Small jobs make children feel capable.

3. Don’t speak for them immediately.
Let them order, answer questions, ask for a turn and say hello themselves.

4. Praise the effort, not the identity.
Instead of “you’re so smart,” try “you kept going even when it was difficult.”

5. Allow safe risks.
Climb a little higher. Balance. Run. Explore. Children learn to trust their bodies by using them.

6. Don’t rescue every uncomfortable feeling.
Nervous doesn’t always mean stop. Sometimes it means stay close while they try.

7. Let them solve small conflicts.
We don’t need to enter every disagreement immediately. Give them a moment to use their own words.

8. Treat mistakes as normal.
Spilled milk, wrong answers and failed attempts aren’t disasters. They’re how children learn.

9. Give them time without constant correction.
Confidence disappears when every move is watched, fixed or improved.

10. Show them confidence in action.
Let them see you try something new, make mistakes and keep going too.

I don’t think confident children are born without fear.

I think they slowly learn that fear doesn’t mean they can’t do it.

And every time we step back just enough, we give them another chance to prove that to themselves.

Save this for the next time your instinct is to jump in too quickly. 🤍

I’m Alexandra, building a life I don’t need a break from.

Follow for more mindset shifts around motherhood, marriage, ambition, family life and the Norwegian way of doing things.

27/07/2026

Official Guidepost Montessori 💜🥺
Confidence isn’t built through praise.

Telling your child “great job!” a hundred times a day doesn’t make them feel more secure in themselves.

Confidence develops, little by little, through everyday experiences that make a child feel competent.

Children who feel secure in themselves often have parents who consistently do these things:

1️⃣ They encourage independence instead of doing everything for their child
2️⃣ They allow mistakes to become opportunities for learning rather than something to avoid
3️⃣ They listen with curiosity before rushing to correct or solve
4️⃣ They offer unconditional love that isn’t tied to performance or behavior
5️⃣ They set kind, consistent boundaries that help children feel safe
6️⃣ They trust their child’s capability, even when a task takes longer than expected
7️⃣ They respect their child as a whole person—with thoughts, preferences, and ideas worth hearing

When practiced consistently, again and again, these experiences make a child feel competent, which makes them feel confident and secure.

In Montessori, we believe a secure sense of self develops when children are trusted, respected, and given meaningful opportunities to contribute. Every time a child pours their own water, solves a problem, helps prepare a meal, or feels heard after a difficult day, they’re building something much deeper than confidence.

They’re developing the quiet belief that says, “I am capable. I belong. I can handle what’s in front of me.”

22/07/2026

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1. When researchers began tracking these families, they expected emotional resilience to be linked to discipline, grades, or enrichment activities. Instead, a different pattern emerged. Children whose fathers regularly spent time with them without trying to teach or improve them grew into adults who handled failure better, stayed calmer in conflict, and built healthier relationships. From the outside, it looked pointless: skipping rocks, building forts, playing with toys, or simply being silly together.

2. The explanation was simple. During unstructured play, children stop feeling evaluated. There are no right answers, no corrections, and nothing to prove. Their brain receives a powerful message: «My dad wants to be with me even when I’m not achieving anything.» That repeated experience becomes the foundation of emotional security.

3. Researchers noticed another surprise. The most meaningful conversations almost never happened during serious «life talks.» They happened while fixing a bike, building with LEGO, or taking a walk. With attention focused on a shared activity instead of eye contact, children naturally opened up about their fears, disappointments, and worries.

4. Years later, the difference was clear. These children were less likely to see mistakes as personal failures, more comfortable expressing emotions, and more resilient under criticism. Researchers believe it came from learning one lesson repeatedly: love and connection don’t have to be earned through performance.

5. The biggest surprise came at the end of the study. As adults, participants rarely remembered expensive gifts, perfect grades, or long lectures. They remembered ordinary evenings when Dad wasn’t in a hurry, laughed with them, and let play be just play. The moments that looked least productive became the foundation of lifelong emotional resilience.

If your child remembers only a few moments from childhood, which will matter more: the times you prepared them to succeed, or the times you made them feel they were enough just as they were?

Check out the “Book” highlights to learn more about my book. For more, visit my blog - link in bio.

21/07/2026

Anyone with children needs to watch this video Catherine David - Responsive Parenting | Stop Yelling | Pro Tips 💜🥺

20/07/2026

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1- not listening
kids need our connection, playfulness & fun to gain their cooperation. A dysregulated child can’t ‘listen’ - they need our help

2- being rude or ‘disrespectful
beneath the back chat or ‘rude’ words is a good kid having a hard time. Punishments make them feel worse about themselves, so behaviour worsen too

3- meltdowns & lashing out
Signs a child needs to release stress/ alarm from their bodies and don’t yet have the skills to manage this (they need our help)

4- fighting with sibling
feeling insecure in their place in the family, need for connection, 1:1 time, immature ways of coping, they need our help

As a psychologist (& mum of 3) I’m on a mission to support parents ditch punishments that damage a child’s self-esteem and their relationship with you

And instead use positive discipline, connection and better emotion regulation skills - that help them and strengthen your relationship too

💫 Comment CALM for my free guide for how you as their parent can ‘calm’ your nervous system, even in the heat of the moment, so you can help, not punish your child 💜

Make sure you’re following to receive my free guide to your DMs

And more positive ways to discipline / teach and help our kids, so we are effective, NOT permissive or punitive in our parenting x

19/07/2026

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That is probably one of the cutest things I have seen in a long time. And also one of the most important 🌼

As parents, we spend years building closeness with our children. We comfort them, help them, listen to them, carry them, and make ourselves available. Connection is one of the foundations of family life. But there is another part of growing up that is just as important.

A child slowly begins to discover themselves as a person separate from us. Not separate in love. Not separate in belonging. But separate in thoughts, feelings, wishes, preferences, and needs. Watching this unfold is one of the most remarkable parts of childhood.

Children who become familiar with their own inner world are building something they will need for the rest of their lives. They are beginning to notice when they need support and when they are ready to stand on their own. They are discovering that being close to other people does not require losing contact with themselves.

I think many adults struggle because they never fully learned this lesson. They became skilled at sensing what others wanted from them, but less skilled at sensing what they themselves needed.

That is why I find moments like these so meaningful. Not because children should always get what they want. And not because family life should revolve around individual preferences. But because self awareness is where self trust begins.

When children feel safe enough to express what is true for them, they discover something powerful. That closeness does not require sameness. That honesty does not threaten love. And that being connected to other people and being connected to yourself are not opposites. In the healthiest relationships, they grow side by side. For me, that is one of the most valuable things we can help children develop. The confidence to stay connected to the people they love without losing connection to themselves.

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Katy Goodwin | Parenting Educator (MA, Child Dev.) 💜🥺The three shifts are not permissive parenting. Boundaries stay. Ru...
16/07/2026

Katy Goodwin | Parenting Educator (MA, Child Dev.) 💜🥺
The three shifts are not permissive parenting. Boundaries stay. Rules stay. Respect stays.
What changes is this. You honor her “no” in small things so she has one in big things. You let his voice land so he trusts it later. You reward honesty even when it is inconvenient.
Inside The Boundary System, the short guide:
The framework for personal boundaries by age. The scripts for teaching self-advocacy. The reset when the pattern has been overriding for years.
Comment START and I’ll DM you the guide 💛

14/07/2026

In Denmark, there is a subject on the school timetable called empathy 💜🥺

It has been there since 1993. Children sit together, talk about how they feel, listen to each other, and practice understanding a point of view that is not their own. No grades. No right answers. Just practice.

No other country in the world has made it compulsory.

And year after year, Danish children rank among the happiest, most socially connected, and most emotionally resilient on earth.

Here is what that tells us: empathy is not a personality trait. It is not something children either have or do not have. It is a skill. And like every other skill worth having, it has to be taught, practised, and taken seriously.

Most of us grew up hearing “be kind” and “think about how others feel” — without ever being shown how. We were expected to absorb empathy from the air around us. And then we grew up and wondered why adult relationships felt so hard, why conflict felt so threatening, why being truly understood felt so rare.

Your child is learning right now whether feelings are safe to talk about. Whether other people’s emotions matter. Whether they can sit with someone else’s discomfort and stay present anyway.

They are learning it from you — even when you are not trying to teach it.

If you want simple, practical ways to start building empathy at home — comment CALM below and I’ll send you our free guide. It’s where most parents start.

And if you want to go deeper — comment PLAYBOOK below and I’ll send you Beyond How Was Your Day? It’s a set of 50 conversation cards designed to get your child out of their head and into real conversation. The kind that builds empathy without either of you realising it’s happening.

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