10/06/2026
"We've tried reward charts. They don't work."
It's a phrase we hear often from parents who have genuinely tried everything they can think of to support their child.
The reality is that reward charts aren't usually ineffective because they're reward charts. More often, they're missing some key ingredients.
✔ Is the reward actually motivating?
✔ Is your child experiencing success often enough?
✔ Is the goal clear, specific, and achievable?
✔ Is everyone responding consistently?
✔ Is positive attention being given alongside the reward?
Reward systems aren't about bribing children. They're about helping children learn, practise, and repeat skills that are important for their independence and success.
When implemented thoughtfully, reward systems can be a really effective way to help children learn what to do rather than focusing on what not to do. They can support everything from getting dressed in the morning and completing homework to following routines, building independence, and developing positive behaviours that make daily life easier for the whole family.
If you've tried reward charts before and they haven't worked, it doesn't necessarily mean reward systems aren't right for your child. Sometimes a few small adjustments can make a big difference.
Need support with reward systems, routines, or challenging behaviours? Our team is here to help. Feel free to reach out to learn more about our services. 🦋
