28/08/2026
This is absolutely true!
Unfortunately, my IBCLC colleagues that work on the post natal wards just don't have the time to help every mum as much as they need. This is a direct reflection on hospital budgets and funding. I was so privileged to do a portion of my training with my amazing mentor Amy Chatburn-Stevens: IBCLC Lactation Consultant Newcastle who used to skip lunch and stay after hours to help as many mums as she could.
Sometimes a quick positioning change or tweak would be all that's needed, but if you are going home and still struggling with pain, latching, needing top ups etc, then this is where a community or private IBCLC will come in. Don't delay getting help.
If you birth at JHH or Maitland, you can access the lactation clinics for 6 weeks. The CFHN clinics also have lactation consultants you can see. Then of course you have all the amazing private IBCLCs that generally you can see very quickly compared to health. We are really lucky to have a large number in the Hunter region.
If you are struggling, please reach out ❤️
One of the biggest misconceptions about breastfeeding is that the hospital lactation consultant is going to “teach you how to breastfeed” before you go home
And I need parents to understand this with love and honesty:
Most hospital lactation consultants simply do not have enough time 😞
Not because they don’t care
Not because they aren’t skilled
But because hospital systems are stretched thin
One lactation consultant may be covering:
• Multiple postpartum floors
• NICU
• New admissions
• Discharges
• Pumps and paperwork
• Babies with medical complications
• Moms recovering from surgery
• Charting and insurance requirements
Meanwhile you’re 24 hours postpartum, exhausted, bleeding, learning a brand new human… and someone pops in for 12 minutes while your baby is asleep 😅
Breastfeeding is not a one-time lesson
It is a learned relationship that unfolds over days and weeks
The hospital is often just:
✨ “Here’s how to latch”
✨ “Baby has jaundice start supplementing”
✨ “Baby lost too much weight start pumping”
And then parents go home thinking:
“Why does this suddenly feel impossible?”
Because the real challenges often start AFTER discharge:
• Milk coming in
• Engorgement
• Cluster feeding
• Ni**le pain
• Pumping
• Bottle refusal
• Oversupply
• Low supply worries
• Weight gain concerns
• Sleep deprivation
• Learning your actual baby
This is why postpartum lactation support matters so much 💛
Here’s what I wish every family knew:
• Take a prenatal breastfeeding class BEFORE birth
• Follow evidence-based lactation accounts during pregnancy
• Have a lactation consultant lined up before delivery if possible
• Don’t wait until things are “bad enough” to ask for help
• One good postpartum visit can change your entire experience
And if breastfeeding felt harder than you expected after leaving the hospital?
You did not fail a class everyone else passed
You were discharged from a major medical event while learning one of the most biologically complex things humans do
That deserves support