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The Book Doula I help aspiring authors write & sell their books so they can heal, leave a legacy & make an impact.

Unpopular opinion: self-publishing gurus tell you it’s the best pathway — they don’t tell you your book won’t be stocked...
20/10/2026

Unpopular opinion: self-publishing gurus tell you it’s the best pathway — they don’t tell you your book won’t be stocked anywhere that matters.

I get why self-publishing sounds like the dream. Total creative control, you keep all the royalties, no gatekeepers. And for some authors, it absolutely is.

But here’s what they’re not telling you.

Yes, you get control over the cover, the pricing, the launch. But you DON’T control whether a single bookstore will stock it. You’re trading creative freedom for commercial invisibility — and most authors don’t realise that’s the deal until the book’s already out.

Self-publishing works brilliantly if you already have a massive audience who’ll buy anything you release. But if you’re counting on new readers discovering your book? That’s not happening. Bookstores are where readers find authors they’ve never heard of. Self-published books don’t make it onto those shelves.

Most authors choose self-publishing because they want it now. They don’t want to wait for agents or rejection letters. I get it. But six months post-launch, when the buzz dies and sales slow to a trickle, they realise: nobody’s discovering this book. And by then? You can’t un-self-publish.

So what should you do instead?

Choose the pathway based on YOUR book and YOUR position as an author.

Ask yourself:
→ Do you have an audience that will buy direct?
→ What’s your budget — and where are you willing to spend it?
→ Are you willing to physically pitch bookstores yourself?

Your real options:
✅ Self-publishing — best for authors with large, engaged audiences
✅ Hybrid publishing — distribution of traditional + creative freedom of self-publishing
✅ Traditional publishing — wide distribution, but you hand over control and most royalties

There’s no one-size-fits-all answer. But if a guru is telling you self-publishing is ALWAYS the best pathway without asking a single question about your audience, goals, or budget? They’re selling you something — and it’s not the truth.

20/10/2026

5 words that get high-capacity women to finish their first draft — even if they’re stuck rewriting the same chapter over and over.

Write. Don’t. Edit. Until. Done.

Creation and refinement are two different brain states. When you try to do both at once, you create paralysis. You rewrite chapter three six times and never get to chapter four.

You can’t edit a blank page. And you can’t finish a book you’re constantly polishing.

So write. All the way to the end. Messy, imperfect, complete. Then — and only then — you edit.

That’s how books get born.

If you’re a high-capacity woman carrying a book that’s been stuck in the rewrite loop — and you’re ready to finally birth it, publish it, and turn it into a million-dollar brand — comment “BOOK” and I’ll send you something that’ll help.

24/09/2026

An exclusive invitation into the room where legacy conversations happen.

You, me, and a hand-selected circle of visionary authors, leaders, healers and creatives who are each birthing their next chapter of influence.

Held in an intimate, high-calibre boardroom setting, you will experience personalised positioning strategy, energetic calibration, and connection with an extraordinary network of fellow female creatives, healers and leaders who are also called to raise their voice and make a difference in the world.

Expect to leave knowing exactly how to access and step into your next level of frequency, visibility and authorship.

Ready to be seen and connected to a powerful, supportive community unlike any other, who will cheer you on well after this event is complete.

This is my only in person event in 2026, and it’s the room you don’t want to miss. DM me if you’d like some further details. Spaces are almost filled. ###

IYKYK…. This one is going to be very special. ✨If you want more info slide into my DMs as this one is invite only. It’s ...
21/09/2026

IYKYK…. This one is going to be very special. ✨

If you want more info slide into my DMs as this one is invite only. It’s the only in person event I’ll be holding in 2026 and if you’re serious about stepping onto global stages in 2027 it’s the room to be in.

Xx

Yes, I Am. — the extended enquiry underneath a writer’s life. On creativity, self-worth, spirituality and the slow work ...
20/09/2026

Yes, I Am. — the extended enquiry underneath a writer’s life. On creativity, self-worth, spirituality and the slow work of answering the question every writer and creative grapples with: am I even any f**king good?

Comment STACK and I’ll send you the link. First piece just dropped. (And yes I’ve shared the full recording 😬)

16/09/2026

Do you fully, completely accept yourself?

I said yes.

And then he sent me this. One hour. Film it, send it back.

(I swear at least once in the blooper. I butcher the lyrics. I keep going anyway.)

Because it turns out you can spend forty-odd years telling other women to fully express themselves while quietly hiding the parts of yourself you’re most scared to be seen doing. You can coach other creative women to back themselves while still learning to back yourself in the way you’d expect a client to.

That’s what I’ve been quietly writing about for the last few years. And this Sunday I’m publishing the first piece on my brand new Substack: Yes, I Am.

The extended enquiry underneath a writer’s life. On creativity, self-worth, spirituality and the slow work of answering the question every writer and creative grapples with: am I even any f**king good?

Comment STACK and I’ll pop you on the list. Launching this Sunday. You’ll be the first to get the link.

Thanks James Wedmore | Business Performance Coach for the push and thanks D A I S Y 🔅 H I L L for being such a patient friend. 🤣👌 x

13/09/2026

A lot of us have secret dreams and desires but refuse to pursue them because we’re so attached to our past and we don’t even realise it. We don’t like where we are but we refuse to let go because we are scared of what might BE (and we don’t want the same as the past).

What I have learned that many have not is that surrendering and detachment is the ANSWER to most things you want.

It really does allow you to let in what is destined for you.

So many women walk around with protection with masks scared to fully show themselves and be seen and it’s in fact in their vulnerability that they open themselves to receive more.

When you can be fully YOU and claim the things you most desire i promise you that life will change for you in ways that you never ever in your wildest dreams ever thought possible. I speak from experience as someone who was terrified to be seen for a long long time. ♥️

Do you agree? Disagree? Do you think there is any part of you still attached to the past? What does detachment mean to you? I’d love to know. 👇

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