09/09/2026
Today is R U OK Day.
And I genuinely mean it when I ask, are you?
But here's what sits with me every year on this day.
The people who most need someone to ask they don't always say no.
They say, "I'm fine." They say, "just busy." They say, "oh, you know how it is."
And then they go home and quietly carry it alone.
Because one day on the calendar isn't enough to build the kind of trust where someone feels safe to say... actually, I'm not okay.
The check-ins that matter most aren't the ones we schedule. They're the ones that happen in the quiet moments. When you notice something. When you sit beside someone and just stay.
So today, yes. Ask.
But tomorrow too. And next week. And the one after that.
The image says it so well. Which heart are you today? 💛
Whoever is carrying something other than the red one, I see you. 🌿
Kerry x 🌻