01/09/2026
Not sure you want photos of your labour and birth? Take them anyway.
I’ve worked with lots of couples who’ve told me before labour that they don’t want photos taken. Sometimes they’re just not photo people. Sometimes the idea of a camera around something so private feels wrong. Sometimes they’re simply sure they won’t want those moments captured at all.
I always tell them the same thing: take them anyway.
What surprises me is how often those minds change. I’ve lost count of the couples who felt sure beforehand, then found themselves asking for the camera once labour was actually underway. Often it’s a small thing that does it, like watching someone hold her hand through a contraction, or seeing the baby lifted onto her chest for the first time. Those are the photos they end up treasuring most.
The sweaty, exhausted pushing shots might not matter to you, and that’s fine. Get those too. Sort out later what stays and what goes.
One practical tip: check with your care providers beforehand. Most are more than happy for you to take photos, as long as they’re not in the frame themselves, and midwives will gladly snap a few for you too if your hands are full.
Worst case? You delete them. Best case? You look back one day and think, “I’m so glad we took these.”