05/28/2026
A coping skill is something we do to help ourselves get through stress, hard emotions, overwhelm, or difficult experiences.
Some coping skills are supportive and help us feel calmer, more grounded, or connected.
Others can develop during hard seasons of life when we’re just trying to manage the best we can.
Coping skills can look like:
• deep breathing
• going for a walk
• talking to someone you trust
• journaling
• movement
• listening to music
• resting
• mindfulness or grounding
• setting boundaries
• asking for help
But coping can also look like:
• shutting down emotionally
• staying constantly busy
• people pleasing
• avoiding conflict
• isolating yourself
• emotional eating
• scrolling for hours
• negative self-talk
• needing control
• withdrawing from others
Not every coping skill is healthy long term, but that doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you.
A lot of these patterns develop because they helped you get through something difficult at one point in your life.
Growth isn’t about judging yourself for how you coped.
It’s about becoming more aware of what’s helping you now… and what might be hurting you.
And I know you have it in you to learn new coping skills , and over time new supportive patterns begin to form.