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The search for Bruce's Hero Bruce is living with a serious autoimmune liver disease called Primary Biliary cholangitis (PBC) and is in need of a liver transplant.

We created this page to share his journey,raise awareness and to help us find a living donor.

08/29/2026
08/29/2026

35 days post transplant. Changed it up today with a visit at RBG gardens.

25 days post transplant. Enjoying the sunshine and a walk by the lake. Getting better everydayđź’š
08/18/2026

25 days post transplant. Enjoying the sunshine and a walk by the lake. Getting better everydayđź’š

08/12/2026

I started these posts to raise awareness about living donation because so many people don’t even know it’s possible. I also hoped to encourage people to register as an organ donor and, just as importantly, talk to their families about their wishes.

A number of people completed the health forms, but two incredible people went further and completed all the testing at UHN.

The first was so hopeful, as were we. Unfortunately, his liver had a complex vascular system that meant he couldn’t donate. He jumped at the chance to help Bruce, and we will always be grateful for that.

The second was literally waiting for her final results when Bruce got the call for a deceased donor liver. While Bruce was in surgery, she received an email telling her she was a 100% match.

We had a backup plan and didn’t even know it. ❤️

This beautiful soul was willing to put her life on hold and donate up to 70% of her liver to Bruce and our family.

The goal was always the same: get Bruce a new liver. And we were incredibly lucky to get the outcome we prayed for.

So many people waiting for an organ don’t get that chance.

Please consider becoming an organ donor. Talk to your family. And learn about living donation. You never know whose life you might change. ❤️

08/05/2026

Canada, we need to talk about organ donation. 🇨🇦

Until July 24th, I knew organ donation was important.

Now I know just how important it is.

On July 24th, Bruce received a liver transplant.

Someone died, and because they chose to donate, Bruce got to live.

I will never be able to thank that person.

But here’s what I can’t stop thinking about…

Why is Canada still using an opt-IN system?

In Canada, about 90% of people say they support organ donation — but only around 32% have actually registered their decision.

That’s a massive gap.

Meanwhile, countries including the UK, Spain, France, the Netherlands and others use forms of presumed consent/opt-out donation.

And no — opt-out doesn’t mean you’re forced to donate.

You still have the right to say NO.

It simply means that the starting point is:

“Yes, I’m willing to give life after my death — unless I’ve said otherwise.”

Think about that.

We don’t have a shortage of people who support organ donation.

We have a system where people have to take the extra step to register.

And people forget.
People don’t get around to it.
People assume their family will know their wishes.
People think they’ll do it later.

And meanwhile, people are waiting.

Bruce was one of them.

We were incredibly lucky.

But somebody else’s family had the worst day of their lives — and somehow, in the middle of that unimaginable grief, they made the decision to donate.

That decision gave our family a future.

It gave Bruce another chance.

Why shouldn’t Canada make that choice easier for everyone?

Give people the right to opt out.

Absolutely.

But let’s make donation the default, not the exception.

Because if you’re willing to give someone the gift of life after you’re gone…

why should the system make it so easy to forget?

🇨🇦 Canada — it’s time to rethink organ donation.

08/02/2026

Thank you to everyone who donated to our GoFundMe. Your generosity has eased so much of the financial stress and allowed us to focus on what matters most—Bruce’s recovery

We will forever be grateful to Bruce’s donor and their family. In the midst of unimaginable loss, they gave us the greatest gift we could ever receive. We will never stop being thankful.

Our family has been through one of the hardest journeys imaginable, but we’re so incredibly grateful to share that Bruce...
07/26/2026

Our family has been through one of the hardest journeys imaginable, but we’re so incredibly grateful to share that Bruce has received a life-saving liver transplant.🙏🏻

Now begins the long road to recovery. We've created a GoFundMe to help with lost wages, medications, and the many expenses that come with a liver transplant.

If you're able to donate or simply share this post, we'd be incredibly grateful. We’re so thankful for the love, prayers, and encouragement we’ve received along the way. ❤️

Sophie Wielhouwer Emery

Bruce is a devoted husband, a loving dad, a proud Opa, and a loyal friend to… Sophie Wielhouwer Emery needs your support for Bruce’s Transplant Recovery Fund

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