06/05/2026
One of the things my girl has been working on is moving away from all-or-nothing thinking/actions and into what I call ā dual realityāā¦
āI have a busy day AND I can move through it with calm.ā
āI feel overwhelmed AND Iām capable.ā
āI feel sad AND I donāt need to become consumed by it.ā
Anxiety tends to live in extremes. It convinces us that if one thing is true, the opposite canāt be.
If Iām overwhelmed, I canāt be capable.
If Iām sad, I canāt be okay.
If life feels hard, I canāt enjoy it.
Thereās a misconception that healing is about eliminating difficult emotions. Itās actually about expanding our capacity to hold more than one truth at a time.
I love helping people master the art of being comfortably uncomfortable. Without this, we cannot step into more joy, health, freedom and ease.
An expanded capacity toā¦ābe humanā is why you hear about the joyful moments in her message:
The dancing in the kitchen.
The music.
The intentional moments.
The feeling of not having to rush through life.
Those are signs that a nervous system is beginning to feel safe again.
If youāre ready to grow instead of mask, cope, or just get byā¦drop me a DM. I have different ways for us to get you from anxious to living a pleasure filled life. xx š