05/25/2026
To every mom out there mothering outside the norm in the world that constantly tells you thereās only one right way I see you and I respect you.
I think informed choices matter deeply ! I always say information is power educating yourself, and knowing your options to make an educated decision can be so powerful.
At the end of the day, I have not lived your life. I have not walked through your experiences your childhood, your nervous system, your relationships, your births, your losses, youāre healing your capacity, your support system or your season of motherhood.
So whether you choose to co-sleep or not - breast-feed or formula feed - homeschool or public school - sleep train or donāt - parent gently or more traditionally - work full-time or stay home - at home or in a hospital - follow the childhood schedule or not
You made those choices from a place of love, intention, education, and doing what feels right for YOUR family I can respect that
The way you are āsupposedā to mother has become very loud on social media, family dynamic and social dynamics in general and it can often times feel like you are being deeply judged, misunderstood and isolated in your choices.
I see this all the time in my line of work for some reason having children can create very weird shifts in relationships and I just want you to know that I am here and I see you