10/14/2026
Close your eyes for a moment and visualize yourself? What do you see? What do you feel?
This past weekend I played in a pickleball tournament, one morning I was feeling very disconnected. My mind and body were not working harmoniously. My paddle was not where I thought it was, my eyes were slow, everything was a bit off. It was loud, bright, and I had drank too much coffee… my nervous system was cranky.
So I popped into the change room by myself, closed my eyes and sat. I felt my bones, where I met the bench, where my feet were in space. Then I rose and moved through space in familiar positions to the game I was about to play, connecting my mind and body. Maintaining awareness of my breath…
My daughter came in and laughed, (as good as it feels I’m well aware it’s not the norm). But at 13 I’ve already seen her do the same. Enroute to games, closing her eyes and feeling her body from the inside out. The interoceptive advantage.
So now as you sit here,
What do you notice about yourself?
Are you feeling happy in your body?
Do you love your curly hair?
Adore each freckle that dots your face?
Do you love your legs?
Or Do you feel miserable? Embarrassed? Pain?
Are there vacant spaces you cannot feel?
Without judgement, just notice.
Now pause and consider, what age are you in this visualization?
Our self image can “quickly” become outdated if you don’t make time to regularly pause+connect.
A body scan is probably the simplest way to connect, lying flat on the ground removes gravity from the equation making it even easier… allowing more space to focus on your sense of self.
There is no right or wrong way to do this. Find a way that works for you and play. The benefits are paramount in sport, work, family and beyond… what a gift to be able to sense ourselves deeply.
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