06/19/2026
Friday's Feelings
I was scrolling, as I normally do, in the quiet moments of the very early morning, the only sounds breaking the peace, a coffee maker and Bear snoring, when this image presents itself so that I paused.
Two things, as best I can tell, made me stop, one being the wonderment of how these algorithms actually work so this was even a part of my feed and secondly the recalling of the classic clinical set-up.
I wrote earlier about what a place of honour I believe my role as a hypnotherapist is, in someone's journey for assistance and healings, recognizing the trust I receive, from desire or desperation, to be a part of their process.
I enjoy the group presentations, the Keynote speaker events, as they satisfy the showman within, but from the very beginnings of my career and to this day, I cherish and prefer the one on one, the belly to belly style sessions.
I am not sure what I am looking to fulfill in my own life, but even the inspiration to pursue education as my first career, was founded on the belief, as most altruistic teachers do, if I could reach one student like Ms. Stelk did with me, my purpose would be complete.
Similarly, the core belief that no two people's worlds are the same, that the way and manner in which we process and proceed, are as individual as the fingerprints we possess, further fuels my commitment to showing respect to that place of honour, I spoke of earlier. That the generalized methods or option suggested in groups sessions, may take root on some level, it is not the personalized care a person deserves, in navigating their map of the world,
Similarly, you may go to a presentation on heart disease to find out more, but trust me when I say, you want care for your specific and particular circumstances in the cards of your health and well-being.
For those who think the stuff from social media will help you, and then become disenfranchised when it doesn't work, know that a HUGE step to your self- respect is recognizing you are worth the personalized support in your therapy, no one has lead the life you have, survived the crap you have, and maintained the decorum you have through it all.
You are so worth it.
Be well