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06/21/2026

Foundation building for the self ❤️

Going through life, where much of our foundation comes from our parents, or institutions, or relationships where some sort of structure is handed to us, sometimes we forget that we have to start at ground zero to build up who we want to be for ourselves, to become exactly who we want to become...this takes time.

It takes planning.

Most importantly, it should not be rushed. We all want to have things be put together or be the best at something overnight, but it is not a light switch.

All good things take time.

If you are building up your whole life from scratch, which, if you are going through a breakup, or some other traumatic event that forces you to rebuild, and you feel you may have forgotten how to do so, you haven't.

You are strong, you are resilient.

Just remember to take everything one step at a time.

You got this.

06/09/2026

HOW CAN I BE HAPPY WHEN THERE IS SO MUCH WRONG IN THE WORLD?
A wonderful answer by a Buddhist monk:

A man once asked an old Buddhist monk:

"How can I allow myself to feel happiness when the world is full of suffering, war, injustice, pain, and loss?"

The monk looked at him with compassion and asked:

"If your mother was sick,
would you stop eating?"

The man looked confused.

"No."

"Why not?"

"Because then there would be two people suffering instead of one."

The monk smiled.

"Exactly."

Then he continued:

"Many people believe that carrying the weight of the entire world on their shoulders is compassion."

"But often, it is only another form of suffering."

The man lowered his eyes.

"But every day I see bad news."

"I see people struggling."

"I see cruelty."

"And I feel guilty whenever I experience joy."

The monk nodded.

Then he pointed toward a small flower growing through a crack in a stone path.

"Look at that flower."

"It grows in a world of storms."

"It grows in a world where leaves fall, animals die, and winters come."

"Yet it still blooms."

The man stood silently.

The monk continued:

"The flower does not ignore suffering."

"It simply does not allow suffering to stop it from expressing its nature."

Then the monk asked:

"If every kind-hearted person became hopeless...

who would remain to help others?"

The man's eyes widened.

The monk continued:

"The world does not need more exhausted souls."

"It needs more people with enough peace inside them to share it."

"Enough hope to inspire it."

"Enough strength to carry it."

The man whispered,

"So being happy is not selfish?"

The monk smiled gently.

"No."

"Selfishness is turning away from suffering."

"Happiness is keeping your heart open despite it."

Then he added:

"Be grateful for your meal."

"Call your parents."

"Help your neighbor."

"Smile at a stranger."

"Be kind to someone who is hurting."

"You do not heal the world by carrying all its pain."

"You heal the world by reducing the pain you touch."

Tears filled the man's eyes.

For the first time, he understood.

His happiness was not a betrayal of those who suffered.

It was fuel for helping them.

And the monk said one final thing:

"Protect your inner peace."

"Because a candle that burns itself out cannot give light to anyone."

"A peaceful heart is not escaping the world...

it is serving the world in the most powerful way possible.

01/31/2026

Felt so good to get back into the shop, Kudos to the VLC Team for such an amazing set up 👌