09/04/2026
“He cheated. So why am I the one trying to fix this marriage?” 💔
If you've ever thought this, you're not alone.
You shouldn't have to fix what you didn't break.
But understanding why he resists change doesn't mean excusing him.
It means learning how to break the cycle of:
You ask → he gets defensive → you push harder → he shuts down → you feel even more hurt.
Sometimes, what you mean as “I need you to change”...
Is what he hears as “I'm not good enough.”
And that can make him resist even more.
I break down the 7 reasons your husband may resist change after infidelity…
And what you can do about it in my latest blog.
Read it here →
https://soulifywellness.com/why-does-your-husband-resist-change/
👉 CLICK ON MY BIO (if the link doesn’t work)
xo,
💕Beth
Marriage Coach & Certified Hypnotist