09/03/2026
Good intentions can still land in a painful way.
When someone you love is in eating disorder recovery, it’s understandable to want to encourage them, reassure them, or point out their progress. But comments about how they look, what they’re eating, whether recovery is “working,” or how hard they seem to be trying can create pressure and shame.
Recovery is rarely linear, and its progress isn’t always visible from the outside. A more supportive approach may sound like:
→ “I’m here with you, even on the hard days.”
→ “Would you like me to listen, help, or simply sit with you?”
→ “You don’t have to prove that you’re trying.”
→ “How can I support you right now?”
Family members deserve guidance and support, too. Click the link in our bio to learn how we can offer support to you as well.