06/16/2026
One of the things that never ceases to amaze me about this work is how quickly things can change.
Today I was working with a client who had been carrying a lot of fear, terror, and helplessness related to a car accident.
At the beginning of our session, she rated those feelings as a 10/10.
She was nervous about doing the work, which is completely understandable. Most people don't wake up excited to revisit the most difficult experiences of their lives.
But by the end of the session, when I asked her where she was at, she paused and said: "I don't feel anything."
0/10.
What struck me most wasn't the number.
It was the look of relief on her face.
And the excitement she had about sharing her experience with her daughter.
Moments like this remind me that trauma isn't a life sentence.
It's an injury.
And injuries can heal.
That's one of the reasons I'm so passionate about helping people understand their nervous systems. When we know what's happening and have the right tools, change is often much more possible than we think 🤍