09/06/2026
I thought giving up people-pleasing meant learning to say no like you meant it.
Turns out, there’s a bit more to it than that...
1. Noticing the pattern
Finally realizing that you keep doing things you don’t actually want to do.
2. Taking action and setting boundaries
Then wondering if you’ve suddenly become the meanest person alive. 😂
3. The whiplash of uncertainty and fear
"Wait, what happens to my relationships if I stop being so accommodating?"
4. Doing the deeper work
"Why did I believe that being helpful, agreeable and needed is how I could earn worth?"
5. Tuning into yourself
"What do I actually want? What do I actually think?"
6. Finding balance
Not saying yes to everything. Not saying no to everything. Just learning to decide what’s actually right for you.
I’m still figuring it out... Follow along if you want to join the adventure! ❤️