08/25/2026
Things I did to feel sexy, liberated & at home in my body again after having a baby…
1. I started moving in ways that actually connected me to my body.
Yoga, dancing, stretching, random flow movements…literally whatever felt good. Sometimes sensual, sometimes strong, sometimes ducking weird. No goal other than letting my body move how it wanted to and specifically taking time to move.
2. I learned more about my mind + body.
I started listening to people like Kevin Trudeau and Joe Dispenza and learning more about thoughts, emotions, energy and the mind-body connection. The more curious I became about myself, the more connected I felt to myself.
3. I started dressing for who I am NOW.
I’m not the same woman I was before having a baby, so why was I trying to dress like her? I invested in clothes that actually felt like an expression of the woman I am now.
4. I started listening to my intuition.
And I started SMALL. Taking a different route because something told me to. Trying the food I randomly felt drawn to. Following those tiny gut feelings instead of immediately questioning them. The more I listened, the easier it became to recognize my own voice.
5. I became picky about who gets access to me.
I wanted people around me who inspired me, challenged me, uplifted me and genuinely felt good to be around. Not relationships I was maintaining just because they’d always been there.
6. I gave myself something to work toward.
A goal. A vision. Something that was MINE. Having something I was excited to build and move toward made me feel ambitious, capable and alive again. THIS ON IS HUGE!!!! ⭐️
None of these things were about getting my “pre-baby self” back.
I don’t want her back.
I wanted to know, express and actually enjoy the woman I am now.