08/25/2026
Breadcrumbs are not the entire buffet.
I think so many people can relate to hanging on to fleeting moments, and words spoken and are left holding on to how those moments made them feel.
This can be incredibly disrupting to our life as we try to figure out what the other person is thinking and feeling.
This isnt just disrupting to our peace,
our confidence and self-esteem can also take a hit leaving us feeling insecure.
In my experience the best thing to do is pull back your engagement and energy and focus it into what you have going on in your life:
your career, children, health, and hobbies.
When we chase someone who isnt for us or isnt ready for what we have to offer, we compromise our own well-being in the long run.
Hand over control to God, let him sort it out and continue working on being the best version of yourself that you can be.