Care with Bianca

08/15/2026

When It’s Time To Close The Door

Check out my recent talk at First United Spiritualist Church followed by a guided meditation for release, trust & new beginnings

08/07/2026

When employers do nothing about workplace abuse, targets feel more traumatized and trapped.

Those feelings can lead to su***de, homicide, and fear of both.

If you are in crisis, call or text with the Su***de and Crisis Lifeline at 988 or contact the Crisis Text Line by texting TALK to 741741.

Sign the petition:
https://endworkplaceabuse.com/sign-the-petition/

06/08/2026

05/07/2026

Today's life lesson... I am beautifully human, and I make mistakes that pave the way for growth. The perfectionist in me is learning to gently accept this truth, even when it's hard to swallow.

Especially when the trauma-informed care advocate and survivor in me wants to whisper cruel criticisms like "You should have known better" or "You were too quick to judge" or "You should have done a more thorough assessment." But the reality is this... I made a decision based on the information I had at the time, with the best intentions.

I suspected someone was under the influence, but it turned out they were living with a traumatic brain injury - a humbling reminder of the complexities of human experience.

And honestly, this realization hit me hard. Not because I don't care, but because I care deeply, and when you pour your heart into your work, mistakes can feel heavy. So here is the truth: I misjudged a situation, I made a mistake, and I am still a good human being and a compassionate professional.

Trauma-informed care isn't about perfection; it's about being open, reflective, accountable, and willing to learn from our mistakes. I am not a trauma-informed care robot; I am a human being, and human beings grow and learn in real time.