06/04/2026
I might get some hate for this, but I need to say it... 👀
Recently, I was reviewing breastfeeding discharge information and noticed that the first message families received was essentially:
“Breastfeeding is challenging.”
Followed by what to do when challenges occur.
Now before anyone comes for me..this isn’t about blaming any individual, hospital, or organization.
In fact, it made me reflect on my OWN language.
Because while breastfeeding absolutely can be challenging, I started wondering if we sometimes focus so much on preparing families for what could go wrong that we forget to prepare them for what can go right.
What if we led with:
✨ Breastfeeding is a skill that you and your baby learn together.
✨ Support is available.
✨ Challenges can happen, but they aren’t guaranteed.
✨ You are capable.
This isn’t about toxic positivity or ignoring real struggles. It’s about recognizing that mindset matters.
Language matters.
The way we frame a journey can shape how someone experiences it before it even begins.
What’s your take? What was the first message you received about breastfeeding? 👇