08/11/2026
๐ Birth plans: yay or nay? ๐ค
๐๐ป We can't PLAN how birth will go; we can have desires & intentions, but birth is a physiological process kind of outside of our control.
๐๐ป Figuring out ahead of time what we want for our births, what our preferences & priorities are, is an invaluable process. We aren't really in control of our births, however it behoves us to do our homework to maximise the chances of having a good birth.
๐๐ป Care providers - especially in busy hospital settings when we get whoever's on shift at the time - may not even read our birth plans (especially if there are many pages and lots of little details), so is it worth doing?
My answer? ๐๐ป๐๐ป YES, for sure.
The process of thinking about HOW you want to birth your baby, what setting, what people, what procedures or practices you want or don't want for your birth, is the invaluable part.
Women who go into birth without having given it much thought are more likely to end up dissatisfied with how their birth went. ๐ซค
Considering all the permutations is a powerful way to hone in on what's important to YOU. Even when you do all the things, situations can arise that weren't foreseen or wanted, so thinking about those possibilities ahead of time and figuring out how you would want them handled can help soften the blow. (I.e.: make multiple birth plans, just in case.)
Women deep in the throes of labour are NOT in a position to be making important decisions, or possibly even sticking to their original intentions! Figuring out your preferences ahead of time - while still in a good place to be making logical decisions - AND SHARING IT WITH YOUR BIRTH TEAM is critical. (..including a doula whom you know, trust and jive with, of course. ๐)
So, my advice: formulate a primary & contingency birth plans and share them with your husband, doula & midwife or doctor - or at least bring them to the hospital with you on birth day - and we'll help you, to the best of our ability, to have a positive birth experience! ๐ค
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Learn more about Doula Jenn B at www.induetime.ca ๐