19/05/2026
I often find it fascinating how a simple change in perspective can radically change how you interpret your past.
I have laid awake at night countless times, replaying a decision, convinced I'd permanently damaged my future. Much of my life has felt like a long series of heart-breaking mistakes. I'm certain that if I'd just done things differently — been stronger, less afraid, made smarter choices — I'd feel better today - more stable, more accomplished.
What I didn't understand then was that the feeling of being lost or regretful wasn't evidence that I was off my path. It WAS the path. Everything I struggled through taught me something, and eventually led me to the work I do now. I guess the only regret is that I didn't listen closer at the time.
I wrote this article for those who feel like "you should be further along" or "you made the wrong choice". It's about the hidden fear that fuels so much of our decision-making (and our anxiety!) and why you're probably not as lost as you feel.
https://davidprocyshyn.com/how-the-fear-of-making-the-wrong-decision-fuels-chronic-anxiety/
Do you constantly worry you've made the wrong choice? Learn how the fear of making the wrong decision fuels anxiety and how to find peace.