05/29/2026
One of the most common fears people have about hypnosis is that the hypnotist will be able to control their mind.
I understand why. Stage hypnosis looks exactly like that. Normal, rational people doing embarrassing things, sharing secrets, acting completely out of character. And it appears to be the hypnotist causing all of it.
What most people don't see is that the hypnotist is screening for a certain personality type.
There is a scale that people fall on, and where you land on that scale determines what hypnosis feels like for you and what you will or won't do in that state.
At one end are highly suggestible people. Personality-wise they tend to be extroverts, life of the party types, comfortable being the center of attention, happy to be the entertainment. This is exactly why they volunteer to get up on stage in the first place.
At the other end are the analytical types. Thinkers. More introverted. They'd rather sit back and figure things out than be put on the spot. They absolutely do not want to be anyone's entertainment.
The stage hypnotist wants the first group and does not want the second. the second will opt out of doing anything embarrassing and spoil he show. So he uses techniques that work primarily on highly suggestible people and sends the analytical ones back to their seats.
From the audience's perspective it looks like very few people can be hypnotized and that those who stayed on stage have some special quality. What they're actually watching is a screening process. The hypnotist is filtering out the people who won't play along and keeping only the ones who will.
Here's the part that matters for my work.
The people who go back to their seats? Those are my clients.
Analytical, thoughtful, engaged people who stay lighter in hypnosis, remain aware of what's happening, and can choose to opt out of anything that doesn't feel right. And that's not a limitation. It's actually an advantage. I have a broader range of tools available with clients who stay engaged. We can have an interactive conversation in hypnosis, I can get them to do meaningful exercises in their minds. I can give them tools to practice with. The work goes deeper in a different way.
The problem is that most of my clients come in expecting hypnosis to feel like what they saw on stage. They're waiting to black out, lose control, or wake up with no memory of what happened. When that doesn't happen they sometimes wonder if it worked.
That's why I always explain this before we begin. So they know what to expect for someone like them. Because being analytical doesn't mean hypnosis won't work. It just means it feels different.
And honestly? I'll take an analytical client over a highly suggestible one any day.
If you want to understand how to work effectively with the clients who actually show up for therapy, this is exactly what I teach in the Whole Brain Hypnotherapy training.
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