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If I was being honest, I would tell you that practicing mindfulness has never been an easy strategy for me to implement ...
05/15/2026

If I was being honest, I would tell you that practicing mindfulness has never been an easy strategy for me to implement in my day to day life. Rumination of “what if….” Has always felt more automatic and generally leaning more toward the anxious or negative versions of what that can turn into. The past few months I have actively been working to manage my own stress and anxiety by utilizing mindfulness strategies and I am happy to report that it is one of the best strategies available to reduce rumination.

Mindfulness invites us to pause and notice what is happening inside and around us without rushing to label it good or bad. By turning attention to the present moment—breath, sensations, sounds, thoughts—we create a space between stimulus and response, a quiet hinge where stress and anxiety can begin to lose their grip. This nonjudgmental observation reduces reactivity, helping us see patterns rather than be driven by them, and often reveals that distress is not a fixed state but a fluctuating experience.

In that light, worries arise as mental events rather than imperatives, allowing us to choose a calmer, more intentional course rather than a reflexive reaction. Over time, small, steady practices accumulate into a reliable counterbalance to the turmoil of everyday life, fostering resilience, clarity, and a gentler relationship with ourselves.

From a psychotherapist’s perspective, regulating the nervous system is foundational to mental health. When the body stay...
05/05/2026

From a psychotherapist’s perspective, regulating the nervous system is foundational to mental health. When the body stays chronically aroused, thoughts can become impulsive, emotions overwhelm, and the capacity to think clearly or connect with others diminishes. Helping my clients shift toward a calmer baseline—through paced breathing, grounding techniques, gentle movement, and creating predictable safety—can move the nervous system from fight/flight/freeze toward a more regulated state.

When practiced consistently clients will report increased present-moment awareness, deeper processing, and the ability to learn and integrate new experiences.

Regulation is not about forcing calm; it’s about building reliable signals of safety that allow the nervous system to rest, recover, and adapt. In turn, clients often experience steadier emotions, reduced reactivity, better sleep, improved focus, and healthier relationships.

If you spend any time on TikTok or any form of social media these days, you will notice that terminology such as Cogniti...
05/02/2026

If you spend any time on TikTok or any form of social media these days, you will notice that terminology such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy surfaces time and time again. Cognitive behavioural therapy, or "CBT", is a form of psychotherapy that helps people understand how their thoughts, feelings, and behaviours influence one another.

The core idea is that unhelpful thinking patterns can trap us in cycles of stress, anxiety, or low mood, and by learning to recognize and challenge those patterns, we can create meaningful change. CBT is practical and skills‑focused: people learn strategies like reframing negative thoughts, practicing healthier behaviours, and gradually facing situations they’ve been avoiding. Over time, these tools help build more balanced thinking and more effective ways of coping with everyday challenges.

CBT is one of the main therapeutic approaches that I use in my practice and is the cornerstone for most psychotherapists. If you are already one of my clients, you know that I often ask you to reflect on your core beliefs about the world and how that affects your lens. Your lens is the key to shifting your perspective, which in turn shifts your thoughts, feelings, and ultimately your behaviours. If this sounds like what you're looking for, book a 15-minute consult to see if we are a good fit to work together.

When you read that, does it make you feel heard or exposed? The truth is, most of us probably feel exposed. Often, we te...
05/01/2026

When you read that, does it make you feel heard or exposed?

The truth is, most of us probably feel exposed. Often, we tend to excuse a poor response as emotional flooding, when, in fact, although hard to admit, we have much more power over our responses than we like to believe. Most of the regret we experience in our lives lies between the stimulus and the response. When you do not give yourself enough time to process what is being said or done, you risk acting impulsively and being emotionally forward.

Patience is a learned skill and necessary for healthy relationships. It is not always how we will practice since, as humans, we are imperfect - but it is what we should strive for. It requires conscious thought and intention alongside discipline. So, how can we put this into practice?

The next time you feel the need to respond impulsively, give yourself a timeframe to respond. That email that upset you - give yourself 20 minutes to respond. That text you received that makes you want to respond instantly - close out the conversation, put your phone down and plan your response. The co-worker who is a tad too intrusive - excuse yourself to the restroom. All you need is a small pause, and I can promise you'll respond the way you want to show up in these tense situations, rather than leaning into how you feel.

Often in my practice, clients will come to a session attempting to explain what is happening in their body when they sta...
04/30/2026

Often in my practice, clients will come to a session attempting to explain what is happening in their body when they start to feel overcome by emotion during a stressful situation. Emotional flooding happens to us all - yes, even the therapists of the world. This is our sign that what is happening is too overwhelming to process in the moment, or we have conflicting demands. Clients generally ask the same thing after they have explained their experience: "Is something wrong with me?" "Why did I feel like that?" The simple answer is NO.

This feeling is a natural response on behalf of your brain and body. The best strategy during times of emotional flooding is to take a step back - remove yourself from the situation for a few minutes so you can process and decide how you wish to respond. This can be difficult in contentious situations, but if done, it can eliminate the risk of saying something you later wish to take back, overreacting, or underreacting (yes, this is problematic too).

Giving yourself a break allows you to compose yourself, decompartmentalize and respond better to what is happening. If you do not have the ability to remove yourself, take a few seconds to take in a deep breath and pause long enough to decide how you wish to respond, rather than responding out of anger, hurt or sadness.

I will be taking a much needed vacation starting Friday, November 28th and returning to the office on Tuesday, December ...
11/26/2025

I will be taking a much needed vacation starting Friday, November 28th and returning to the office on Tuesday, December 9th, 2025. All emails and correspondence will be answered upon my return.

Hello Instagram Community! It’s been a while! I wanted to take this opportunity to re-introduce myself for anyone new to...
10/18/2025

Hello Instagram Community!

It’s been a while! I wanted to take this opportunity to re-introduce myself for anyone new to my page.

I took a bit of a social media hiatus as I had some big changes happening and I always want to be as intentional as I can be with my audience.

Coming back with a fresh perspective, a few changes and new ideas is what I was hoping for so stay tuned for some exciting projects that I have been working on!

I am still accepting clients for both in person and virtually. Looking to book a 15 min consult to see if we would be a good fit? No problem! Follow link in my bio or send me a direct message.

The weather is starting to warm, the flowers are blooming and you might feel an intrinsic pull to onboard some new healt...
05/20/2025

The weather is starting to warm, the flowers are blooming and you might feel an intrinsic pull to onboard some new healthy habits. There is nothing truly more important than our health. Without it our lives become very difficult and when you go a period of time where you are either physically, mentally or spiritually unwell - you learn to appreciate your health above anything else. Living a healthy lifestyle can be difficult especially are certain periods of time in our lives such as being a parent, starting a new job, going through financially difficult periods, starting to live independently for the first time, going through grief & the list goes on. When life feels hard or chaotic it can become very difficult to scratch the surface of having a "healthy lifestyle". Take a look at the suggestions- try to onboard one of these every week and slowly watch your motivation increase, patience increase, anxiety decrease and your mood improve.

Often clients will seek counselling to attempt to understand their relationship patterns and how they are contributing t...
01/02/2025

Often clients will seek counselling to attempt to understand their relationship patterns and how they are contributing to complications or conflicts that are arising in their personal relationships.

Our perception of our relationships is shaped and shifted by many things and the relationships that we saw modelled to us in our childhood has a significantly contributes to how we live out relationships. Some come to find that they are living out the same patterns as their parents while others go to great lengths to not replicate the same patterns. Neither situation is better than the other but how it contributes to your personal relationships is important to understand and reflect on.

HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS 👌🏻 A relationship takes commitment and constant dedication to effective communication, understandi...
12/29/2024

HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS 👌🏻

A relationship takes commitment and constant dedication to effective communication, understanding and the ability to share feelings, needs and wants to flourish.

Of course, every relationship has bumps in the road, disagreements and hard conversations. For every conflict based interaction relationships require 5 or more positive interactions to counter balance.

Positive interactions can be expressed gratitude, compliment, loving embrace and leaning into your partner.

Always remember, arguments are normal but they have to have a resolution otherwise one or both partners will leave a situation feeling unheard, invalidated and frustrated.

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Windsor, ON

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https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/therapists/holly-sexton-windsor-on/1054130

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