Anfisa Shimkevich- Sex Love Relationship Coach

Anfisa Shimkevich- Sex Love Relationship Coach Nervous System : Tantra : Trauma-aware
Helping sensitive hearts feel confident and alive in sex + relationships ❤️‍🔥

An oldie that feels so relevant to share 🖤In a phase of refiningof devoting myself of zooming into what is TRULY importa...
17/06/2026

An oldie that feels so relevant to share 🖤

In a phase of refining
of devoting myself
of zooming into what is TRULY important

Less AI, more unfiltered thoughts
Less productivity, more being in touch with my hearts call
Less running about, more focused days

Of course the most important focus are my RELATIONSHIPS
The one with my husband
My son
My dear friends

I’m so moved by the role of relationships in our lives ✨
The transformational containers they are
The irreplaceable part of our lives

Relationships are our inspirations to change who we are
And stretch beyond our hearts limitation to love

The quality of our life depends quite literally on the relationships we have
With yourself
With your partner
In extension with your kids and parents

They reflect who we are. But somehow we are loosing the art of relationship building in the modern world. And I’m here to try and change that. 🤍

With a great hope and wish that this creates a brighter future for the future generations on this planet 🌻

Follow along for the next part of my transmission here where I help you get out of painful patterns and create the relationships you actually want to be in 🫱🏻‍🫲🏼❤️

With love,

Anfisa
Your devoted S/x & Relationship Coach

Life sometimes forces us to pause and reassess the important things ❤️ that’s what it looked like lately 1: post SLR ses...
03/06/2026

Life sometimes forces us to pause and reassess the important things ❤️ that’s what it looked like lately

1: post SLR session glow. Loveee my clients. Loveee pouring in my heart into this deep and transformative work. ❤️‍🔥And yes I’m the gal that only wears wired headphones 🤪

2: sunsets from home

3: golden hour in the kitchen sipping on licorice tea while my son is slowly taking the whole house apart (it this not the main theme of motherhood haha)🌞

4: gym sessions as non-negotiable self care 💪🏼

5: making rose water with fresh roses from our grove 🌳 p.s it worked!!!!

6: barefoot with the family is a simple joy and pleasure. Rolling around in the grass. Looking for lady bugs 🐞

7: home made matcha 🍵 with my soul family ❤️on the home grass lawn that took 2.5 years to establish, but sooooo worth all the work out into it

8: my incredible partner who I don’t happen to have a photo of this month because we have been busy bees 🐝

Hope you are all enjoying the sweet beginning of summer 🌞
Mwah! ❤️

There is more to love making than what you know ❤️‍🔥What level would you most love to experience?
28/05/2026

There is more to love making than what you know ❤️‍🔥

What level would you most love to experience?

The power of this act is real and I know you felt it on your own skin 🖤The choices we make around how we use this incred...
26/05/2026

The power of this act is real and I know you felt it on your own skin 🖤

The choices we make around how we use this incredibly powerful energy affect our life in more areas than one

I’m sending love to all those who bared the darker side of this 💔 (speaking from a place that I too have felt it)
And reminding you that it can also be the path to healing those deep wounds your heart and body had to bare

With love,

Anfisa
S/x, Love and Relationship Coach

We have equates s/x to the physical and only. But there is so much more that we somehow don’t notice, but definitely FEE...
20/05/2026

We have equates s/x to the physical and only. But there is so much more that we somehow don’t notice, but definitely FEEL.

Hence why talks and thoughts about the one we slept with can go on for hours and even days, (ooor years).

Sometimes we connect on the physical level only
But a lot of the times is more complex

There are emotions, thoughts, life situations and those shared moments that bring us together into a spark desire.

In my world s/x is a multi dimensional connection of bodies, emotions, thoughts in a dance of energy exchange. ✨

What are your thoughts?

Beyond the way one looks is how they FEELand I feel this is what dictates whether one is happy or notin relationships, i...
17/05/2026

Beyond the way one looks is how they FEEL

and I feel this is what dictates whether one is happy or not
in relationships, in love, in life…

This is what I’ve been focusing on while I’ve sat in practice with myself over the last 1.5 years
while I cried out the past relational pain
while I learned that pleasure doesn’t have to be tied to a suffering of my heart
while I moved beyond the pain towards a greater ability to love myself and another

I focused on shifting how I FELT in those situations. Not WHAT happened.

This is powerful because it liberates us 🦋

We cannot change what happened to us. But we can change how we feel about it.

And how we feel will completely dictate the future choices we make in love, in staying or leaving, in saying yes or no…

Honestly, it was even more difficult than diving into the shadows of my psyche…
(Because at some point you get the hang of the dark & somehow know the journey 🖤)

But FEELING GOOD, daily…
That was a skill I literally had to train myself into.

(and it was interesting to watch myself feel resistant towards feeling good on more days than I thought).

And we all have a “ceiling” we have become accustomed to in regard to how GOOD we allow ourselves to feel in life, in love, in the bedroom…

Yes, it’s all connected. The bedroom and how you are in life ✨

Pleasure is a great tool here as it reminds us that life in a human body gets to also be pleasant and beautiful ❤️
I believe befriending the parts of us we were taught to hide, the taboo, the real emotions, the desire, is the liberation the majority of us are needing ❤️‍🔥

It literally feels like finally being able to breathe again

All it takes is courage.
Courage to make the first step towards yourself 🌞

Being the safe space for over 15 people this last year has shown me how this courage is rewarded with incredible breakthroughs. And it makes me so happy to see you thrive ❤️

📸 credits to dear friend

your body has been trying to tell you something for a long time.you just weren’t taught how to listen between the lines....
08/05/2026

your body has been trying to tell you something for a long time.

you just weren’t taught how to listen between the lines.

this is what we change together 🖤

Alive Woman ❤️‍🔥 3 month 1:1 container.
The glow up that changes everything

DM me “ALIVE” or book a clarity call in bio.

Babe, don’t let the “normal” dictate your happiness You are so much more than that You can live with more joy in your bo...
06/05/2026

Babe, don’t let the “normal” dictate your happiness

You are so much more than that
You can live with more joy in your body
Yep, look at yourself in the mirror and think “uuu what a beauty”

This happens when you start standing up for the things that drain you
When you stop tolerating
and start setting boundaries

You ARE worthy of that
Joy is your birthright

This woman lives within you and I can get you to her ❤️‍🔥

DMs are open for your stories and thoughts ❤️
With so much love,

Anfisa

The most common thing I hear:“I know what my pattern is. I just can’t stop doing it.”And I understand why that’s so frus...
30/04/2026

The most common thing I hear:

“I know what my pattern is. I just can’t stop doing it.”

And I understand why that’s so frustrating … because you’ve done the work.
You’ve read the books, been to therapy, understand your attachment style, know where it comes from.

And still.

There you are again. Frozen in the moment that matters most.

This carousel is for the woman who is tired of understanding her blocks and ready to actually move through them.

Swipe if that’s you. ❤️

Over years of working with the domain of confidence this is what I found to be the real deal 💥Confidence is not about wh...
22/04/2026

Over years of working with the domain of confidence this is what I found to be the real deal 💥

Confidence is not about what the people think about you
It’s not about what you wear
Or how “cool” you behave

There are all products of being truly confident
Because you will dare to dress as what expresses you
You will we spoken about highly
And you will have an authentic way of being that will be seen as cool

Being truly confident stems from something deeper
It’s how much trust do you have for yourself?
To make the right choices, to step up for your values, and to act in the way you will feel proud of (even in the most difficult of moments).

Because when we are constantly in a war with a part of ourselves that discourages us,
tells us why we are not lovable
how we will never find our place in the world or our person…

We are being silently drained from the inside..🖤
Like a boat with a hollow bottom

This invisible battle makes us weak

It’s this self-talk, the shame, the self-punishment for yet another bad choice around a lover, or another moment you forgot what is actually important for you in relating that you betray yourself and weaken your internal system.

Confident people are those who stopped compromising who they are for the outside to accept them. And through this they have found their love, their path and their people.

True work of confidence is starting to align the parts of you who still work against you, to move with you towards what you desire.
In a way that aligns with what you value
In a way that aligns with Who you choose to be ❤️‍🔥

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