12/10/2026
I nearly talked myself out of marrying the man I prayed for…
👉🏼 Comment “STORY” below & let’s get into it! ☕️
It’s pretty wild how self sabotage can pop up in dating because we get so used to expecting the worst. 😭
We get so used to things not working out that we create red flags that aren’t even there as a safety mechanism.
In this story I share 3 things I did differently in our relationship than previous relationships,
And one of those things was listening to the whisper of the Holy Spirit to continually let down my walls & be vulnerable with my now husband…
Even though it scared the crap out of me!!!
I didn’t want to get my heart broken again!
But the stronger my relationship with God became…
The more discernment came from the Holy Spirit…
The more I was able to lean into dating my husband and learn to trust a man again.
(Because the Holy Spirit kept telling me that this man was worth trusting)
Anyway, I think you’ll enjoy getting into the weeds on this full story with me ♥️
xoxo, Janelle
P.S. New here? 👋🏼 Think of me as your Christian big sis sharing all things dating, cultivating a Godly marriage, and growing deeper in your faith. So happy you’re here! 💗