09/09/2026
Hey everyone, I’m Tim Cox and I’m from men’s mental health support group Bottled Up Blokes.
Now, I’m a relatively ‘normal’ guy. Married, 2 kids, normal job and just rolling through life like lots of people.
But I’ve also suffered with my mental health for years. I was diagnosed with ADHD in October 2025 and that explains some of it but it’s also linked to things i’d been through growing up as a teenager. I’ve having several rounds of counselling and been on antidepressants for years.
After not having anything local to me in January 2022 I set up a men’s only private Facebook group with the hope of getting enough local interest to eventually open a face to face support group. In April 2022 we opened our first group (BUB HUB) in South Normanton which is still running today.
Roll on to now and we have a football session that takes places at Tibshelf every Monday night 7:30-8:30pm, we hold 3 BUB HUBs each week. Tuesday from 7pm in Hucknall at the John Godber Centre, Wednesdays from 7pm in Nottingham at The Portland Centre and Thursdays from 7pm at the Church Hall in South Normanton. We also do social days/evenings out and once a year we have an activity weekend away.
From a personal perspective I know I’ve taken lots from attending these groups and also grown a new incredible social circle, I know how important groups like ours can be.
But what we need now is more men knowing we exist. Knowing we’re out there to give them support and a space to open up, talk, socialise and grow. I’m generally rubbish at promoting BUB as I don’t want to get annoying but if you can share, like or follow us it goes along way to help us get noticed and we’d massively appreciate it.
If you’ve got any questions feel free to comment or drop us a message and we’ll be happy to help 💙