24/05/2026
Hello everyone🙋🏻
I hear You had blue 🔵 skies all the way🌞🌞🌞 I hope you are all well
I was thinking🤔 lately about that phrase we often hear, 🙉 or say 🙊" Go and make some beautiful memories " and many of us do say it, or have said it and continue to do so!
We say things like you will always have your memories, but that's not really true, is it?
For so many of those we know and love, those memories made are no longer retrievable, or available😟
We find ourselves living in a world were so many cannot recognise the faces of those they loved so much.
The years spent together through thick and thin are a past time that cannot be recalled.
We think about our own mortality and those we do not want to burden if ever we found ourselves in that situation.🙆🏻
Those of us with one child and how we would never want them to be in a situation of feeling they need to be there for us, to take the burden, or pick up the peaces of a life lost in time.
We think about 'care ' and the horrific and horrendous stories that were highlighted only a week ago in our own local media.
We hear talk about lessons learned, changes made, things never to be repeated, but yet they are happening time and time again, the same mistakes, the same abuse, in the same places and others we don't get to hear about.
Who will tell on behalf of someone with no relatives, no friends or no callers?
Stories that we have all personally heard and seen in areas of care. We think, we wonder about options, if any!
Many too frightful to think or even consider.😱
Patience is a virtue, it's not always easy for anyone at times but it is a must, if you don't feel it , it cannot be taught, it's in you or it's not, no amount of money in the world will make it different and it doesn't.
Those who are lost in their memories, who gaze at us and are just not sure, who find the world a strange place, noises are intrusive, living a life they don't want, need us to help maintain their dignity and to care at all times, to remember, that they are where we may one day be!
We have to make it better, we have to hang on in there, we have to be kind, be caring, be as supportive but above all else remember to respect.
The person in front of you had a life and all the experiences good and bad, they had hopes and dreams, they didn't ask to lose their memory, they didn't expect to need someone else's help.
Life as it is, has tried to wipe the board with our older generation in many respects, they are treated as wasted human beings, if they are not working then they are seen as non productive, our governments are failing them at every step.
In other countries there is a greater respect for their elders, they remain the main stay of the family, not thrown away like wasted space.
All we hear on debates is the fact that people are living longer, we have a larger group of an older generation so there is a greater pressure on our health care etc, then make it better don't talk about them as if they shouldn't be here, it disgusts me.
Make what is provided better, make it work!
Everyone on those talkshows who talk about the elderly with negativity must remember they are all on the same journey and their but for the grace of God.... or whoever your God or essence may be...go any and everyone of us!
Wishing you all a lovely weekend ahead.
enjoy the weather,look after yourselves and stay safe.xx🙏🏻❤️🫂