16/08/2026
So what actually is The Alchemy of Self and why did I choose that name?
For me alchemy is about transformation. Not pretending the sh*t things in life didn’t happen, covering them in positivity and telling yourself everything happens for a reason. It’s about acknowledging that they DID happen, that they affected you and then deciding that they don’t get to dictate who you are for the rest of your life.
Because let’s face it, life can be bloody hard sometimes.
Heartbreak, trauma, grief, rejection, difficult relationships, childhood experiences, losing people, losing yourself… We all collect things along the way. Sometimes without even realising how much we’re carrying.
And I think that’s where so many of us get stuck. We spend years being who we needed to be for everyone else, adapting, coping, surviving and just getting on with it, until one day you look at yourself and think… When the f*ck did I lose me in all of this?
That’s what The Alchemy of Self is about.
Not fixing you, because I don’t believe you need fixing. It’s about helping you understand yourself, release some of what you’ve been carrying and reconnect with the parts of you that got buried underneath everything else.
The way I work reflects that too. I bring together energy healing, coaching, meditation, cacao ceremonies, workshops and retreats because there isn’t one magical answer that works for everybody. Sometimes healing is deep and emotional. Sometimes it’s quiet. Sometimes it’s uncomfortable. And sometimes it’s laughing until your stomach hurts and remembering that you’re actually allowed to enjoy being alive.
I’m also never going to be the person who tells you to just “raise your vibration” and think positive while your life is falling apart. 😂 I don’t believe in toxic positivity!
I believe in sitting with the difficult stuff and finding your way forward from it.
Taking what hurt you, what changed you, what nearly broke you and turning it into something that no longer has power over you.
That’s the alchemy.
Turning pain into power and finding your way back to yourself.
Welcome to The Alchemy of Self. ❤️