17/06/2026
When we feel anxious, our brain’s survival system identifies a "threat": like a social event or a tough chat: and suggests we stay away. Avoiding it brings instant relief, but that relief is a debt we pay back with interest.
The hidden cost? It shrinks your world. Every time you opt out, you confirm to your brain that the situation was dangerous and reinforce the belief that you can't handle it.
Confidence isn’t the absence of fear; it’s knowing that you can cope with that fear. Of course you won't like it and you would rather not but you can cope with it.
As a BACP accredited counsellor, I help people move through that discomfort rather than avoid it.
If your world has started to feel a bit small, let’s work on making it bigger again.
Pop over to my website or send me a DM.