10/09/2026
Do you ever find that despite your best intentions and strongest will power you still can’t quite bring yourself to put yourself ‘out there’ when it comes to living your deepest Soul Dreams. Maybe you find yourself tongue tied at the worst possible moment in the presence of someone who could be your perfect partner. Maybe you freeze when you are offered a new opportunity at work and end up being passed over again despite being the best person for the job. Or Maybe you have been holding a secret dream, a fantasy that not only can you barely acknowledge yourself but has become another proof of how useless you are.
I work with many people who have a powerful vision, strong passionate dreams, and in each case these dreams and desires light them up when they talk about them. The life the passion, its catching and inspiring. It sounds amazing. Recently I noticed that for many then when I ask when this will happen, or when they will put this plan fully in action, the light dims. There is an evasion, a subtle sense of moving away . It is often covered up with realistic, plausible excuses. But there is an unmistakeable shift in energy.
It has fascinated me for a while. When something matters that much and lights you up to that extent, why are you not pulled along with the joy and inner conviction into the external actions you need to support your vision? Why do you hold back in big and small ways?
Usually you know you are doing this but can’t stop it. It’s not the fault of your will power. It’s not the wrong dream. It’s something built in beyond your control. It’s often accompanied by a sense of failure that can become crushing over time. A vicious circle that feels hard to break. In fact you may find yourself saying, this is just me, this is what always happens, It has always been like this.
When you find yourself unable to pin down a single clear origin, when it feels like you’ve always been that way, this is a big clue that your current challenge is linked in some way to your Birth Blueprint.
Your what-print?
Your birth blueprint- the secret map that holds the key to why your most stubborn patterns resist change despite all the inner child work you have done and your best intentions and strongest will power. It is formed way before your conscious memories take root. Your entire map of the world and where you fit in it is seeded and deeply rooted into the journey you take from conception to being born. And you think you have left that behind. You can’t remember it so you don’t even think to look there.
And yet that is where the true gold lies. The freedom and confidence you have been seeking.
Curious?
I am doing a free 90 minute introductory workshop on the 15th September. You can sign up in the comments below. I will be sharing more about exactly what this blueprint it and how you can spot when it is impacting you and thwarting your best efforts. I will also be directing you in a direct experiential exercise to support you to take a first step to moving beyond any limitations of your personal birth story.
Check it out! It has been the most freeing and healing work I have done for myself and for the hundreds of clients I have supported over the last 17 years.
