26/08/2026
My first meeting this week was a gorgeous conversation with Dorset Menopause Support, and I was celebrating something that had genuinely changed my world.
Back in May, my GP surgery offered me an appointment with a specialist menopause practice nurse. She was able to spend meaningful time with me, listen properly, explore my symptoms and help me understand my options. I felt heard, validated and really understood.
That conversation supported me to move onto suitable HRT, and the difference has been enormous. Some symptoms have become easier, others have disappeared completely. It has changed my quality of life.
So imagine how I felt when, at my check-up appointment today, I was told that this provision no longer exists.
No more women being able to access what I accessed through this surgery.
How, in 2026, are we going backwards in women’s health?
How, when we know more than we ever have about menopause, its symptoms and the sometimes catastrophic impact they can have on women’s lives, are we caring less?
I understand that money is a factor. Of course I do. But if I had been given a three-minute appointment rather than the time I needed, if I hadn’t had the opportunity to properly explore my symptoms and treatment options, surely that has a cost too?
A cost in pounds, yes. But also a cost in lost productivity, relationships, confidence, wellbeing and quality of life.
I consider myself incredibly fortunate that I “got in” just in time. But I know I will need support again at some point. And what about the many women I hear from through the work I do?
Where is their opportunity to be heard? To be validated? To explore their symptoms and treatment options with someone who understands menopause?
This isn’t about asking for special treatment. It’s about appropriate, informed healthcare.
So I keep asking:
When will women’s health become a sustainable priority, rather than something we invest in briefly and then take away?
Because meaningful time with a knowledgeable healthcare professional can change a woman’s world. I know. I’ve experienced it.